It has been 3 months, why Can't I let him go?

Question

So this guy broke up with me 3 months ago because according to him we didn't get to see each other much...I think it was because he was jealous due to the fact that I went out with a male friend of mine a couple of times. But he didn't say that he wasn't ok with it so I didn't know. Anyway the thing is I didn't think much of it until he was no longer in my life and now I miss him like crazy. I don't want to be in love with him but I'm afraid that I am...It's obvious that he doesn't miss me or feel the same because when I called him by mistake one time and hung up on the first ring, he called me right back. I said that it was a mistake for me calling and hanging up and he said that he missed talking to me. He said that he would call but he never did...Now I find myself thinking about him all the time and I even cried a few times. Due to my pride I refuse to call him and let him know especially since he didn't call me back. How do I let go and does it seem like he even care at all?

Answer 1

I'm sorry hun, I'm kind of going through the same thing. I havent let go, I'm still trying to get him back. Not the best advice, but sometimes I believe you have to just follow your heart. As I think nicole richie once said,
you just have to go after what you want ...and if it doesn't want you back, then so be it - it doesn't deserve you anyways.

Answer 2

Pride goes b4 the fall. Meaning you can have so much pride that it can hurt you in the long run. U should call him or if he has cell txt him and say wht's up, thinking abt u, hey u,etc. If he responds bck to the txt,go from there if not let it go. Its hard to let someone go who you may care abt but if it was truly meant to be it will come bck to you. No cell you say, this also can be done via email or IM

Answer 3

duh?. saying says if you love someone set him free if he return he is yours if not look for another one... refocus your mine.. do the old thingd you were doing. go out have fun..