Totally depends on the child's age. If it is an infant...it is sad to hear them cry all the time bacause you sometimes don't know what is wrong. The calmer you stay, the better it is for you and baby.
2006-10-01 15:51:33
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answered by **KELLEY** 6
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When my baby first got here, I thought I was going out of my mind. All he did was sleep, eat and cry. I was already really insecure about not knowing what I was doing, and it seemed like all I was getting was negative feedback. After all, none of the cute stuff (smiling, laughing, playing) starts for a month or two at the earliest.
I started trying to be patient and sing and rock. Then I would try to ignore it for a while. Every once in a while, when I felt like I was absolutely losing my mind, I had to put the baby in the crib and step to the other end of the house for ten minutes.
Is your wife/significant other getting stressed with a new baby? Being stressed, overwhelmed and hormonal are normal, but always be on the lookout for postpartum depression. If your worried, is there anyone else who can pitch and give her a break for an hour or two? Just a little bit of time can really make a difference.
2006-10-01 16:00:19
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answered by LilyRT 7
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Depends on the child and the mother. If a baby cries a lot, the mother probably feels totally stressed and responsible. If it is an older child, the child has learned to manipulate the situation by crying and the mother probably is responsible.
2006-10-01 15:58:13
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answered by therego2 5
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If the child is a baby, the doctor should rule out colic and other distress. It could be teething, or allergic reactions to new foods, etc. There are a ton of reasons for kids to cry. I used to just go down the list and make sure they were ok in the diaper dept., that there was nothing hurting them, and they were not hungry. Sometimes they just get overly tired and need to be held and walked about or rocked and soothed.
Also, if the baby is new, and the mom is not feeling ok, check for post partum blues, which the doctor can help with.
2006-10-01 17:20:53
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answered by busybody12 5
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With a tiny baby, mothers often feel helpless.
With older babies and children, we often feel annoyed.
But sometimes we have both these feelings regardless of the age. Or neither of them.
The feelings are all valid. What separates a mature mother from an immature one is the ability to separate ourselves from what we're feeling and being able to focus on the practical demands of the situation -- putting aside our selfish needs and attending to the needs of the child.
If crying is a recurring problem, the mother needs to be active in seeking pediatric advice.
2006-10-01 15:56:49
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answered by Lisa G 3
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Your job as a mother is to comfort. Nothing more. You teach love and comfort your child. If they cry, you hold them and help them through their tough times..infant thru adult.
Love your sweet child. Life is too short to let them cry it out. Hug and love your child.
2006-10-01 16:46:59
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answered by Anonymous
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It's normal to get a little frustrated when you can't figure you why they are crying, so if you feel frustrated, PLEASE step away a little. Take a breather, and have someone take over.
But a toddler throwing a tantrum, just walk away. If you pay attn to a tantrum, they just keep doing it for attention.
2006-10-01 15:57:02
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answered by krivera_fierro 3
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my cousin is 3 and everytime he cries my aunt gets extremely annoyed ..shell hit him, he doesnt stop..shell give him a time out, he wont stop and she then gets to the point where she cries cause she thinks she does something wrong
2006-10-01 15:58:33
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-12-12 18:48:48
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answered by ? 4
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I use to get real worried. My husband would get real impatient. Now we have lost our 2nd baby at full term birth and if I ever have the courage to try again, I'd be happy to hear her cry because at least she would be able to cry.
2006-10-01 15:55:52
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answered by Carolee B 2
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