We usually see each other once during the week and on the weekends b/c we go to different colleges. Recently we have only been seeing each other one weekend night and one weekend day. He doesn't seem to have missed me and would rather talk to his friends on the phone about their weekend than spend time with me.
2006-10-01 15:44:35 · 22 answers · asked by Heather M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is giving his attention to someone else besides his friends.
2006-10-01 15:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know i want to say not good, but it can also mean different things,
1 he is comfortable with you in the relationship and now wants to include or rekindle his frienships with his friends.
2. you are pesty so that pushes him away.
3. he has to devote time to study , he is in college and that is where his time should be primarily be spent.
4. the spark is gone? you must spark it back up, thats what happens in so many marriages after people have been together for awhile.
5 sometimes at your young age people grow and change and just happen to grow apart, interest change ect. good luck concentrate on your education , youll need it based on divorce rate these days and single mothers, but dont spend your time worrying about something you have absolutely no control over another persons feelings or actions, all you can control are your own. carry on and hang in there you have plenty of time for all that later, this is your survival and future your dealing with now.
2006-10-01 16:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by betsyturminyen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be bored with the relationship and not want to see you as much. So what I think you should do is make your self busy. Say this weekend coming up when he attempts to make plans with you say u have to study, tutor someone, girls nite out, not feeling well etc. That way by the time the next weekend rolls around he cant wait to see you! If this doesnt work chances are he wld rather be with someone else.
2006-10-01 15:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Teapot23 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, this doesn't sound good. Do you complain that he'd rather talk to his friends than you? If so, stop. Otherwise, it sounds like he's taking you for granted. The best thing you can do is pull back. Let him wonder why you aren't concerned whether he calls or not. You only have to do this once or twice. Go out with your friends! There's SO much to do at college on the weekends. Enjoy it before you regret missing out. Good luck! :)
2006-10-01 15:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by LuvsMochaCoffee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend gives you attention sometimes, then he is simply wiuthholding attention at other times so that you will want more.
If he never gives you attention, then he is not into you.
2006-10-01 15:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by me8md 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must talk to him frankly why he stops giving attention to you.You must also make an introspection yourself why he does not giving attention to you maybe you have a wrong doing to him.
If he is still communicating with you through phone maybe he is busy.So you must avoid bothering him.
2006-10-01 15:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he isn't as in to you as he was when you first started dating. A way to fix this is to change i up every once in a while. Maybe surprise him with a special phone call or gift. Go on a romantic date with him and if none of this works try talking to him about it.
2006-10-01 15:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Nylonclassics 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like put up or shut up time, You need to make it known that his lack of attention is hurting you and that if it continues that he will have all the time he needs to talk to his friends.
2006-10-01 15:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest he is either a dumb ***,or he just wants someone else or has already got someone else lined up if i was you i would get further detail because i wouldnt wait around to be hurt very badly hope my answer helped some..
2006-10-01 15:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by im just me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably has lost interest in the relationship. You should confront him so you won't continue to waste energy.
2006-10-01 15:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by fla_dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋