Today my friend Sara called me and apparently my other friend Hanna is lying to my ex Matt and blaming all the things she did to him on me. And when he came over to my friend Sara's house she tried to get him to talk to me. But instead he just gave me the finger. Hanna is ruinning our lives. She doesn't want Matt to be happy. And she is trying to ruin my life in the proccess of that and my friend Sara's. What should we do. And the only reason he is not talking to me is b/c I cheated on him and I really hurt him. And he went crawling back to my friend Sara who is his ex and now there friends with benefits.
2006-10-01 15:38:30 · 3 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres nothing u can do..i mean u cheated on the guy..haha what is he suppose to be happy? maybe theres a small chance he wants u back cus he likes u and wants to be with you..or he can get back with u for the sex just like that sara girl. You all can be friends with benefits..he'll be one happy guy haha
2006-10-01 15:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sara doesn't really sound like a friend. You need to forget about both of them and they can only hurt you if you let them, don't let them know it bothers you. You cheated on him he has the right to be upset and mad at you, you would feel the same if he did that to you. Make some new friends, and next time your in a relationship don't cheat.
2006-10-01 22:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it is very simple...
What this all means is that you need to FORGET ABOUT PLAYING DRAMA GAMES WITH YOUR FRIENDS, and forget about romantic relationships completely-- for at least five years (cause right now you're only going to suck at them really badly!) and then concentrate on loving YOURSELF, loving your parents, and on getting the best education you can get! It is clear that you are not ready for this type of complicated entanglement.
This may seem like a bad thing, but it is not. If you step away from the hormones, learn to love YOU, find out who you are and what you stand for, and focus on good family relationships then you will be happier in the long run. I promise.
To put it simply:
You are at a crossroad...
You can either search for that wonderful "soul mate", find him, love him, fight with him, divorce him with 2.5 kids (destroying their world in the process) and spend years looking back with regret..
OR you can learn about you, repair your broken relationships with your family, educate yourself, then LATER-- find a decent partner to share life's ups and downs with, and make a solid home for any possible future children. Even this is not full proof, but at least you would be stronger and better educated. And besides, the first option is pure suicide for you and your progeny.
2006-10-02 13:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by DidoDeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋