for guys what would you think if a girl?

Question

texts you at the middle of the night just to talk to you in a friendly manner about anything else except love, then when she sees you in school or in another place she does not smile and she seems to be avoiding you
but when the night comes , she will text you again and become friendly all of a sudden, then the next day would completely ignore you eventhough she saw you

do you think that the girl is mad
would you think she likes you
would you think she is mysterious
what else would you think of her
and would you like that kind of treatment?

Answer 1

Sorry to say bud, but I think she's playing games.

I've had countless friends in this scenario, or similar anyway. The most often scenario is that the girl won't date the guy, but will call him at all hours of the night, after she's done hanging out with her friends to 'just talk' or in a lot of cases, to come over, watch a movie and 'sleep' together - meaning they cuddle and sleep in the same bed, but it never progresses.

These guys often take this as 'mixed signals' unable to tell what she is trying to say . . .

The signals are in no way mixed. The girl is saying exactly this: "I like you, and trust you, and think you are a great guy to have in my life, but I don't want to date you."

Basically these girls are the ones who always end up with the 'bay boys' but like to keep a 'nice guy' on the side for when she wants real company and someone who genuinely cares about her.

But these girls need a wake up call. They need to know that you are a 'nice guy' NOT a pushover. Now, it's never a problem to be friends, but then be friends all the time. She either has you in her life, or she doesn't - and she has to choose. If she wants the bad boys, she'll have to get used to waking up alone. If she wants you in her life, she has to show you the respect you deserve.

Now, and I'm afraid of being a little long winded here, if you want to peak her interest it isn't so hard. Girls don't actually want 'bad boys' but they want a confident man, and most often the bad boys are the closest thing to it. Instead, become the confident nice guy. Be a nice guy, not a door matt. Be mysterious, and emotionally strong. Display independance, and indifference to the opinions of others. Show that you are your own person for your own sake- you are a nice guy because you want to be, not because you need to be to make friends.

Because let me tell you, the only thing more attractive than a 'bad boy' is a strong independant nice guy, who knows what he wants, how to get it, and won't take no for an answer.

Answer 2

I can actually answer this one from experience. She was a co-worker, except occasionally at work would speak to me, but would usually call me or meet me outside of the work environment. Her story was that she was married, but having trouble in her relationship due to her husband never being around when she was and leaving as soon as she got home. Turns out, she was never having trouble at home and doing the same thing with 3 other co-workers. I got played and it sound to me like you are too. Get out while you are ahead.

Answer 3

2 faced. It's ok to keep you up all night, and bs, but wants nothiing to do with you in public.

Had that happen to me and nipped in the bud.
The only reason I get a call in the middle of the night; it better be an emegency or my woman.

Answer 4

Well, If someone did that to me, I'd safely assume she was a total psycho,

or Batman.

Either way, She's acting wierd, and will only talk to you in private for whatever reason.

Personally, I would eventually get pissed and force her to say something during the day.

Answer 5

How does the guy really feel about the girl? If he likes her, then he may think she's playing games or messing with his mind. But he may also feel like she's shy and just doesn't know how to hold a conversation.

I wouldn't think she's mysterious or mad - but that's just me.

For some guys though, it may make them more attracted to the girl because she is hard to "catch". I don't know, but I wouldn't take it too far. You could make him discouraged or angry because he wouldn't know how you really felt. Or, he may think you don't know what you want. Or, he may think you're a Player (playette).

Be careful and don't go too far.

Brother DzL (AsP)
"The Player's Lifestyle"

Answer 6

Well, I'd say that she was either:

1. Ashamed to talk to me in public
2. Afraid to express her feelings towards me in public

BUT guys don't like Two-faced women----You either like me or you dont---but dont put up a front and try to confuse me

BOTTOM LINE:
I would write the girl off

Answer 7

Really good question, I'm not sure, I might think she doesn't like the dark, and would like a friend to talk to so she dosen't feel as scared maybe.

Answer 8

Sounds like she is really shy and seeks a friend and ur it for now tell her to piss off or start talking

Answer 9

I would think someone else is using her phone and playing a joke, or she is texting you by mistake.

Answer 10

poor guy.he probably thinks shes embarrassed to be seen talking to him, or afraid of what her friends would say. she is quite shallow not a true friend.