If you weren't getting "any" at home, would you seriously consider an affair just to get laid??? Or would you exhaust all other means before ending it and moving on to someone who would give it to you on a regular basis??? And how long would you go without before you absolutely reached your breaking point??
2006-10-01 15:22:58 · 6 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Estoy whatever your name is..I am not a HOE. I was just posting a possible problem a couple may face. Get off your fricking high horse--who really gives a crap that you and your honey are waiting?? Of course you are....you're probably 13. Geez....
2006-10-01 15:45:51 · update #1
I am in that situation now. Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 2 years now, and we haven't had sex in well over 6 months. I try and be patient, because part of the problem is she has medical issues(diabetes, kidney failure, blind, etc), and I know the pills affect things. But at the same time, I'm young enough to still want to have sex(32), and she's still young. She just has no sex drive, and refuses to make sex any priority. It's just not that big of a deal. It isn't the be all end all, but at the same time, when a couple loves each other, they should also LOVE each other, right?
But, your question was, would you consider cheating? Consider, yes, as in dream about it. Do it? No way.
2006-10-01 18:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by devlish_blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not satified with my sexual relationship with my bf right now. We just don't have that chemistry. We've been together for a year now and things haven't changed. He is worried that I will cheat on him, but I won't. It is not right to cheat on someone, because they trust you and you shouldn't betray them. As for dumping him, it is up to you. Sex is an important part of a relationship, and if you feel like you want to cheat then you should break up with him. Your relationship can't survive on such neglect of pleasure. However, first talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. If he refuses to work on it then I suggest moving on. However, I am lucky because my sex drive isn't that high anymore because I'm on medication so it isn't a huge problem for me.
Good luck
2006-10-01 22:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all....are you married to this person? If not, stop bein a H O E and quit doin it before your married. I'm in a commited relationship, and we're actually WAITING til we're married to "get some".....I would never cheat on my honey b/c I'm COMMITTED to him. If you were seriously committed to the person, you would be able to talk about your "get some needs"...duh. Seriously, if you've already done it w/ the person, shouldn't you be comfortable about talking about it with them???
2006-10-01 22:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by AmandaLayne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to talk about it with her, and try to be understanding and patient as long as possible, all the time i would be flogging the bishop to keep myself sane, and finally i would just figure that either i am a terrible lay, and the sight of my body grosses her out, get a huge complex about myslef, try to talk to her again. i would also suspect her of seeing someone on the side and would confront her on what is her problem. if she still refused to discuss the situation with me i would help her pack her crap, and ask her very politely to go and be a frigid evil ***** somewhere else
2006-10-01 22:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by smitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends if it would be for sex and no emotional energy. If just sex, yes i might stray after i have exhausted all other options. If for emotional reasons i would end the relationship immediately and start anew.
2006-10-01 23:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by En1gma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no..masturbate or get out of the relationship first!!! No cheating,its just plain wrong.
2006-10-01 22:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋