It's a new relationship, but i'm not turned on at all while in bed together. Do you think I can over come this if I don't think about it?
2006-10-01 15:18:33 · 17 answers · asked by peggin_beast 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've heard the old saying "Sex isn't everything", which is true in some respect, however, if you're not sexually attracted to the other person then I'll have to assume you're not in love with this person. It's better to let this person go because you're keeping yourself from finding the right person and you're also holding the other person back from possibly finding the right person that is more suitable. Hope this helps!
2006-10-01 15:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Bill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not be involved in a relationship if you're not sexually attracted to this person. You said it's a new relationship, have you even taken the time to get to know this person? Normally that is the way to go. It's important to find interests. You both have to find your likes and dislikes. You are completely jumping to conclusions while just basing your newly relationship on sex. Try to give the the relationship a chance outside of the bedroom. When all that falls into place, you'll have plenty of options for the sex department. I know many couples who didn't have such a grand sex life, but they spiced it up with new and exciting things. Believe me, there are plenty of new and exciting things to satisfy you both in the bedroom.
2006-10-01 15:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Emmie_katz7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be "in bed together." That is the activity for after-marriage relationships, not before.
2006-10-01 15:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do u love this person? But i must say sexual attraction is a main thing in a relationship!
2006-10-01 15:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a very bad sign for the future of the relationship.
2006-10-01 15:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Michael F is right. Satisfying sex is part of a healthy relationship. However, in my opinion, you should give it a little time. Let him get used to you and he might eventually find a way to please you. It could be that he's in the beginning stages also.
2006-10-01 15:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Christopher45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex isnt the most important thing in a relationship... dont worry bout bein sexually attracted to this person like them for them no whether or not they turn you on... takes things slow and whatever happens happens... maybe in time you will be sexually attracted to them..
2006-10-01 15:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by dancachick08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Either its there or its not, and sounds like its not. MAybe give it a little time if you really wanna be with him, but you probably wont change your mind about it and its easier to break up before you two get really serious.
2006-10-01 15:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jaded Heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold... If the woman has a kind heart, she is the most beautiful woman in the world and you should want nothing more than to give her the universe she deserves.
2006-10-01 15:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Satisfying sex is a major factor in a good healthy relationship, tell him he dont float your boat or teach him how you like it, but dont just sit & wonder.
2006-10-01 15:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by devilinme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋