i am really good friends with a girl at my school but i want to ask her out and i don't if she likes me enough.what do i do??
2006-10-01 15:16:42 · 16 answers · asked by aaronchism 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a girl you can trust. Tell her to go ask the girl " he your friends with (you), whats up with that? Why havent you asked him out?" Then see what she has to say about the subject, then you'll know where you stand. Don't do it yourself. If she says no, then she will feel wierd around you, and you will feel rejected, and you will both start avoiding each other.
2006-10-01 15:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by rebecwi3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a girl myself, I can say that there are guys who I like as friends and if they try to get serious with me it scares me away. However, if you can ask her out as strictly friends, no pressure she'll be more open to that. Be sure to keep it as friends until you get any clue from her that she wants more. You could even bring up the subject after some time, but make sure she knows that if she only likes you for a friend that it's okay and you'll still be there for her.
Pressuring her can ruin any chance at something great you two could have, and not pressuring her can a lot of times draw her interest, because she'll feel more respected.
2006-10-01 22:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by wise2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out anyways. Worst she can say is no, right? I graduated HS 6 years ago. People say that I am really "HOT" but I had low self esteem and never saw myself that way. so, I never talked to anybody cuz I thought that I was a nerd or ugly, or something like that. In turn, I never had a date for anything. I found out at my class reunion last year that every guy was intimidated by me, and they all thought that I was too good for them cuz I didn't really talk to anybody much. Hey, I would have loved to have pretty much any of the guys in my class ask me out on a date....So, give it a shot. Maybe she likes you too but is too shy to say something. If she says no, you still would have flattered her, and that will stay on her mind.
2006-10-01 22:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by jesse s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her, or have a friend do it for you.. But a girl always likes it more if you ask her. Anyway if she wants to remain friends, then move on, and find another girl who you have the same feelings for. and who has feelings for you.
Good luck :)
2006-10-01 22:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go a head and ask her if you fail at least you can be proud that you failed but you tried! now that is a winner in my books
to not ask and do nothing is worse then getting a failing answer from her if one does nothing to help himself, then one can not help that person
she could say yes or no but might be no right now and yes later on
2006-10-01 22:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take a chance! Theres always that risk of rejection...but thats life! Good luck!
2006-10-01 22:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to go get a pop or ice cream or whatever is near where ya live. She will or she won't but DO NOT GIVE UP CAUSE SOMETIMES THEY GOT TO BE WHERE THEY GOT TO BE!!! So go for it and do not give up
2006-10-01 22:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT..... A FRIEND IS FOREVER UNLESS YOU CROSS THAT LINE OF FRIENDS AND LOVERS...
KEEP THE FRIENDSHIP AND FORGET THE DATING.. THERE ARE OTHER CHICKS OUT THERE.
WHAT IF YOU ASK HER OUT AND SHE SAIDS NO....HOW WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO LOOK AT HER AS A FRIEND AFTER THE REJECTION.
2006-10-01 22:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do other than asking around quietly to find out if she likes you is to just ask her out. Most girls wait patiently for guys to ask them out.
2006-10-01 22:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just take a chance. It depends though. Is she your friends? Cause than u hav something to loose
~kk17
2006-10-01 22:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋