How do i know that that man is for me, the one that i will be spending the rest of my life with?
2006-10-01 15:16:18 · 13 answers · asked by Sam_Mitch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
hmmm....that's huge....as for me....i pray a lot. coz' it's hard to depend on feelings alone ...i need a tangible proof.....and i told God about the one He is gonna give me...then to my surprise after 4 years I met this man and realized that all my prayers has been answered right before my eyes....so then i started to ask Him and myself could this really be the one?....until things get clear to me...things are just getting better ....everything falls into right places....and we're getting married next year....now i'm certain that he is really the one! what i say is really pray for your mate! God is a perfect match-maker....you just gotta be patient in waiting ..don't just settle for anything less...be specific to your prayers so you would know it is the one..it took me 4 years to get my prayers answered...God can give you someone that fits you...that compliments you....so goodluck ok?..
2006-10-01 15:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by maic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will know when it seems that he can do no wrong even though he's imperfect. It will be as if no one can ever make you feel so good about yourself the way he does. You get lost in his words, even if it's just pure nonsense. You could care less what he does for a living or what people say about the two of you. As long as you feel completely satisfied and not wondering about other men or wondering about what he's doing or how he's feeling then you have a good one.
2006-10-01 23:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I asked myself that lots of times. But, if you have to ask, not good. My future husband walked up to me, shook my hand & said hello. When that happened, everyone around us just departed (opened up the space) It was weird. The second he said "hello" - my heart jumped a thousand feet. I couldn't imagine my life without him. I have my own brain & senses, but I think of him as my right arm. He's soooo sooo smart, charismatic, & can charm the pants off anyone!! lol (but I don't worry about that) I know for a fact that he would never cheat on me as I would not him. Communication, trust and true love. (I actually met him years ago 2 times, but fate didn't want us to be together till we "actually" met)
2006-10-02 01:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by hey you 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no better answer then, you just know, if hes the one, you just know, there is no guidelines or rules to weather or not he is the guy you are suppose to spend the rest of your life with, bcuz once you define love it stops being true love, so if you look at him, and you know that he is the guy you are suppose to spend the rest of your life with and hell make you happy the same way youll make him happy, then guess what you just know.
2006-10-01 23:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by cuteybooty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know. But you don't ask a bunch of strangers on the internet, that's for sure. What do your family and close friends say about him? do they like him? How are you with him? Does he lift you up and make you feel good about yourself? Do his assets strengthen your faults, and vice versa? Good luck.
2006-10-01 23:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you that. you will either think you know he is the man for you and make the biggest mistake of your life or you will think he is the man for you and share many years together. either way with experience comes more knowledge.
2006-10-01 22:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by sexylousleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend the book Finding the Love of your Life. I used the information in this book to pick my wife. We have been married 12 years and are still happily married.
2006-10-01 22:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Barry T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he can sacrifise for u , if he can care for u , if he can feel your emotions, if he can understand u, if he can risk for u ...........if u can trust him, if u can understand him , if u can bare him, if u feel helpless without him ... all this happens normally in infatuation so u never know who is your man or woman ppl assumes something and happens something else so cross your finger and if all these qualities are in both of u then go a head .....
2006-10-01 22:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by Deep Thaughts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never tell that the right guy will last forever...it takes time honey...i have friends that their relationship lasted for almost 8 years but they didn't end up in church..why? because of honesty and third party..it's you who can decide and will feel that he's the right guy..
2006-10-01 23:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by harukashin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any doubts--don't do it; communication and trust are the biggest factors after being in love
2006-10-01 22:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋