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Me and my girlfriends been together for over 2 months now and I care alot about her, more than anything in the world. But we havent talked in a couple of days and I called her tonight and she sayed she dont feel like talking, and she said that shed call me later and never did. I thought about putting roses in her car tomorrow while shes at work. What do you guys think that I should do? And please dont give any rude anwsers, I need some really good answers fast.

Answer 1

give her some time she may be going through something. putting rose on her car is sweet but may come off the wrong way. she may think you're laying it on too thick especially now that she is acting strange. if you don't hear from her by the end of this week call her and ask her if she still wants to be in a relationship. if she says no then say bye. don't even ask her why. If she cares about you she will tell you whats going on as long as it's something that will affect the relationship.

Answer 2

Don't take this the wrong way dude, but you're pu$$y whipped. I also use the term 'Vaginized'.
I personally wouldn't do a goddamned thing. If she doesn't want to talk, fcuk it!
And I'm NOT being rude. I'm just being honest. I may like a girl but I'm not going to make a damned fool out myself for her affection. Only nutless losers do that. "Sack up' dude and stop acting so emotional.
Let her call you. Even if it takes a week or two. And when she does call to ***** you out for not calling her, I would say something like "Wow, you mean it's been a week (or whatever) already? Seems like only yesterday." Then act like nothing has happened at all. Act nonchalant.
And if she never calls back... oh well. At least you know your standing with her. Stop sweating it. Be calm, be cool, be collective.

Answer 3

If you really feel strongly about her, I would go ahead and put the roses in her car along with a nice handwritten note about your feelings for her.
(when I say "I" I mean, if I was you).

BUT... I would also be prepared that maybe she does not feel the same way about you anymore.

Maybe she is just having a rough day or needs time to think about your relationship or (hopefully not, for your sake) she is making a decision to move on.

But regardless of how she might or might not feel, you know how YOU feel and I would act on your feelings by doing the romantic thing. I would put the roses in her car not as a way to keep her but as a way to show her how I feel for her.
One thing you don't want is her feel guilt-ed into staying with you.

True love is being able to let go of someone you can not have... true love is wanting their happiness even if that means they are not with you.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Allan, Honestly as a female I would say don't start trying so hard. It may come across that you are desperate for this relationship. I would say to give her some space right now so that she has time w/out hearing from you to sort thru her feelings. It might do her some good to wonder why you are not at her beck and call. Give her some time to miss you which I know is easier said than done.

Answer 5

Sounds to me that she is just very tired or possibly confused about being with you. she might be spending time with someone else. Do you talk to her everyday? If so and you haven't talked in a few days then something might be up. Leaving roses in her car is very romantic and she will definietely call you after that. (just make sure you leave them closer to the time she gets out of work or they will wilt up). Once she calls you make sure that you talk about your concerns. Tell her that you care about her very much but recently you feel like she might be slipping away. In a situation like this the best thing to do is communicate. Hope that helps.

Answer 6

ok i think the roses are a good idea for real. your not bugging her but you are showing her that u care and thats so sweet. cause maybe she is just going through some hard times and just cant talk about it right then. u never know so u can still lay low and give her some space to deal with stuff but show her u care and if she is a good woman she will like it and know that u are a sweetheart and care much about her. and good job on that idea most men are jerks and wouldnt care.

Answer 7

I'm not sure why you haven't talked in a few days. Giving her the roses in person might be more personal. You need to find out why she doesn't want to talk. Maybe she is feeling down about something. Good Luck!!

Answer 8

Its hard to say, only she knows whats goin on in her head. There's the option of her just not feelin like talkin, feelin sick, maybe she was doin somethin she wanted to focus on, or tryin to break it off. The only way to know for sure is to confront her about it in a nice way.

The roses are a nice idea, but in the car screams stalker. You should definately deliver them to her at work though, women love that. If she still acts the same, I would say look elsewhere for someone who wants to be with you.

Answer 9

Something can be going on in her life that you don't know about. She may have been upset over it at the time you called her. Maybe you can try and ask her what is going on, and if she cant give you a straight forward answer, maybe you should then ask her if your relationship is in trouble. Let her know that honesty is important to your future together. Best wishes to you!

Answer 10

I think you should put some roses on her car window. A little note also with it. I love romatinc guys that just does things right out of the blue when your at leat not expecting it !