My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years and are now on a break to explore. Is there a chance we could ever be back together after dating others and still have a strong relationship?
2006-10-01 15:02:51 · 15 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No
2006-10-01 15:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the love you feel for one another wont dissapear. You two got hurt by each other and had to get out, dosent mean forever but for the time being. you two had a very long relationship together and for that leangth of time you two bonded and got to know each other very well. after dating others if both of yous realize you wont find what you two were looking for and wishing that these relationships were more like what you had together you both will realize you belong with one another. some couple need a break from one another from time to time. thinking things would be better if yous did. but after if things are not going as you would think you start to miss that part of your life and want it back. now it takes two to feel this way to get back together. just give it time, this relationship needs space and if yous belong with each other your hearts wont keep yous apart for long and if that is what is meant to be than the relationship will be more solid and will last.
2006-10-01 15:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, me and my boyfriend back then, decided to break-up, he said he did not want me anymore, due to my jealousy.I left my home state of Maryland, I was gone for almost 18 months.I met other guys, but did not connect the way I did with this man, who stole my heart.I am happy to say, we are finally married after, being a couple since I was 16.Plus he is older than I am, by 15 years. I actually met him, when I was only 12.But I had no interest in him what so ever.I love this man more than life itself. He is my hearts desire, my soulmate, my best friend.We can talk about anything in this whole world.And he makes me laugh like no one can! I am deeply in love with my husband and also my very best friend in the world!
2006-10-01 15:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Marna S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking a break is usually a way to break up without actually saying so. If you do get back together, there is prolly going to be a lot of jealousy and insecurity about the both of you seeing others. I don't think it can ever be the same.
2006-10-01 15:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My guess is no, I don't think so! Who's idea was it to go "on a break to explore"? Obviously one of you (you or her) wants to be with other people and cannot commit themselves to a relationship. Get some help.
2006-10-01 15:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My spouse and I separated for about 2 years and got back together, and have been back together for many years now, and are happy we are still together.
2006-10-01 15:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is you allready know the answer to this. You may get back together.. but the damage is done.. if you even get married.. the seeds of doubt are allready planted.
2006-10-01 15:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by youareyourown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying, that goes: If you love someone, let them go. If they come back they are yours. If not, than you were never meant to be together, after all.
2006-10-01 15:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by Donna H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, sometimes a break can make you realize how much you miss and love the other person. It can make you and her have your feelings sparked a new. It might be the best thing for the two of you.
2006-10-01 15:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by bjobrien0326@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no maybe as friends. its time too hit the highways start exploring. sadly thats life, hate to say itt but you have honestly run your course, leave hit that lonesome highways of life. part being friends but you too have honestly gone your seperate ways.
2006-10-01 15:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who you are going to date...becuse if one of you are going to date someone who is better ....the chance for you to go back to a strong relationship is 42% from my point of view.
2006-10-01 15:08:16 · answer #11 · answered by Galaxy D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋