me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 7 months but for the last 3 months we have not seen each other because he has moved away and now when we talk over the phone it seems like he is not him self. i want it to work but the next time we see each other will be in dec.. so i dont know....help
2006-10-01 14:52:21 · 8 answers · asked by CANDYGIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, long distance relationships seldom work out.
2006-10-01 14:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem to see the big picture.
7 months ago you began going out with someone. You went out with him for 4 months and then he moved away 3 months ago. (You are NOT still going out with him). You will be seeing him in another 3-4 months, but not before. He doesn't have much to say when you talk on the phone.
O.k., a this point you have NOT gone out with him almost as long as you did go out with him. Double that "not gone out with him" part and you get to December. Are you seriously thinking of carrying a torch for someone, at YOUR age, for almost 7 months of not seeing each other after only going out with them for 4 months?
Move on - I am willing to be that he is either in that process already or is getting ready to be.
2006-10-01 15:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old are you? But if you feel that he is worth the wait and you think he is up for the challenge too, then do it. Just be careful and make sure when and if you see him in dec. its the best time it can be.!!!
2006-10-01 14:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as u may not want to accept this ur gonna have to move on, because now that he has moved and haven't seem much of u he has lost intrest.
He may even be dating so should u
2006-10-01 14:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships are hard to handle, wait until december and see what happens.its just 2 months more!
2006-10-01 14:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long Distance relationships mostly never work out so good luck....
2006-10-01 14:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he doesnt seem like himself try investigating into what has changed him, and just talk to him, and if stuff doesnt work out then.. it happend for a reason...
2006-10-01 14:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by teekapeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and come visit me at glennhensgen@yahoo.com
2006-10-01 14:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋