It seems like if you do get involved with him your in for a ride but if you really like him, and feel that it can go somewhere, Hey why not?
2006-10-01 14:50:47
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answered by teeka 3
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when you get older you will realize "age" is really just a state of mind.
Consider this, and hopefully it will help you, if you were in his place, would you want your age and your child to stand in the way of what could be amazing?
I have been in reverse situation (im 27). I would never let a woman's child be the reason I didnt give it a go.
Ask yourself a real question.. would you not date someone cuz they had speech impediment or deformaty? Alot of people will say openly no but most will hold that against them.
If you really like that person, go for it - just remember that him having a child can be extra work since well... might be worth it.
Also remember, if you guys fall inlove forever and ever, he will always be the younger studdly husband lol
2006-10-01 14:56:33
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answered by nick_in_miami 3
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Don't bother dating him besides the fact that he's younger and has a baby, he is going to take you on an emotional rollercoaster. His baby mother is going to be the most annoying person you can think of. She'll probably drop the "you can't see your baby, unless we are together" line. You really should move on. Unless you are into the baby mama drama, run while you still can. If you are unsure of this situation, then don't even waste your time b/c you are going to invest a lot of time in to this guy for nothing. And if he can't see his baby, he should take her to court for visitation rights. Therefore, the court will grant him time with his baby and not with her. It's up to you. Are you built for this?
2006-10-01 14:53:23
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answered by Rica 82 5
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It can never hurt to try but know what you are getting yourself into. Just because he has baby mamma drama doesn't make him a bad guy, maybe it's her or her family with the issues. You never know until you talk to him. If you don't want to involve yourself in that problem, because you will be even if you try to stay out of it, just leave it alone. All you can do is pray about it & God will give you an answer. You may not like what He says but He knows what's best for you.
2006-10-01 14:55:59
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answered by Dannie 1
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if u want 2 walk into a family already made and in turmoil and u really like him go 4 it, but my guess is that u feel bad for him because of his situation and he proabably is a nice guy and all but u should not get involved because then if she decides 2 let him see her then and she says well that girl cant be around when u want 2 c her he will show u really where his heart is , only go for it u really plan and think it out , u r 21 make ur own familly and let him deal wit his.
2006-10-01 14:54:07
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answered by q45dip 3
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I would move on. On the one hand, he might be a very nice guy, but right now he's a young guy with a baby and Baby Mama Drama. Do you really want to deal with all that?
2006-10-01 14:51:03
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answered by Le_Roche 6
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there might be circumstances to why the mother isn't letting him see the child. the age part really doesn't matter. i would just start off as friends, and see where it goes from there. that way, as a friend, he can confide in you and maybe tell you more of the story about the baby.
2006-10-01 14:50:25
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answered by aj.0603 1
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It sounds like a good idea, but just remember when you deal with you are signing up for dealings with the mother to the child. BABY MAMA DRAMA!
2006-10-01 14:50:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Sweety, only you can make that judgment. But, if is depressed or deeply emotionally hurt by the situation, he may want to have another. Anyway, if you do stay with him take your time and get to know him. Good luck
2006-10-01 14:52:26
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answered by sunshine23511 5
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Thats your choice,, we all make mistakes or bad choice its apart of growing up into Adulthood.. She will one day come around and let him see is child that is why prayer is good and great can change any storm in ones life.
2006-10-01 14:52:21
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answered by M M 3
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