I checked my boyfriends cell phone and..................?

Question

he got all females numbers on it. Should i be worried or is it possible they're just all his friends? Should i confront him about it?

Answer 1

trust. a famous brand of condom. if its broken then it cannot be trusted. if you don't trust him, break up.

Answer 2

Also all the other answers are good but also be careful some people male and female will play a game to see if you will spy and either confront him about it or contact one of the numbers i had a gf do me like that one time and she told me i failed the test and we broke up.

Answer 3

I think you should just leave well enough alone, because you breached his privacy and he will distrust you forever if you even bring it up. Also, if you haven't had a serious discussion about a long term relationship/marriage he is well within his rights to have as many female phone numbers as he wants. They may just all be friends, but more than likely it's at least half friends/half booty calls, but until you have a ring on your finger from him, you hardly have any right to have checked in the first place.

Answer 4

Would he be upset that you checked his cell phone? That might cause a problem in itself. You could ask him why there are all females numbers on his phone. If you don't use an accusatory tone and he isn't paranoid, maybe you can get a decent resolution.

Answer 5

Sure, confront him, but be prepared for him to turn it around so you're the one in the wrong since you were spying on him and checking his cell phone.

Gee, what a coincidence that it's all women and he has no male friends. Sounds like a dog. Dump him.

Answer 6

Have some fun with it. Call them, be sneaky in finding out what you want to know and enjoy it. After gathering your information you will know whether or not you need to confront him about them. Should you need to confront him, you will have some amonition to fire back should you catch him in a lie.

Answer 7

i believe between the most stressful issues a lady friend can do is leaf through their boyfriends cellular telephone, also what truly ticks me off is even as they answer the phone for them even as they don't like the guy calling. females continually have a good urge to seem at different peoples phones, my boyfriend likes to snatch my telephone and seem at my photos yet I not in any respect enable him. curiousity might want to eat you alive yet do in simple terms not do it. adult males HATE IT

Answer 8

You should never ever look at anyone's cellphone numbers or messages, listen to messages on their answering machine or anything of the sort. Shame on you, that is an invasion of his privacy.

I actually dumped my last girlfriend for the same reason - immediately and unconditionally.

Answer 9

It could be old friends, work associates, or family. I store lots of names in my phone on a first name basis and some I don't even remember who they are. Give him the benefit of the doubt. What would he find or think if he peeked in your phonebook?

Answer 10

One of the biggest questions I have is what is wrong with the relationship that you feel you HAVE to look at his phone? Sounds like there is something there that is making you uncomfortable.

I am not saying have blind trust, I am only saying you should only be in a relationship with someone whom you can trust enough to let them have their own space.

Answer 11

Since in a dozens of your other Yahoo questions you talk about the many times he has beat you I would be certain that he is messing around on you.
Oh, no...that's not right. They're his friends, uh huh, that's it, yeah.