okay see I am in this relationship with someone that I've been fighting for (emotionally..etc) for... truthfully to make the story sound more simple.. I am a girl and I am seeing a girl.. but see I don't know why out of no reason it doesn't feels... well it feels right.. but it feels like something isn't clicking.. I mean.. I don't know if I trully love this person... I mean I've been wanting to be with this person.. and now that I have them I treat them fatefull and I love spending time with them.. but I just don't know.. maybe I am scaried that this person might hurt me since they've been doing this for sometime and our "past relationships".. all my friends been telling me that I am stupid for giving her so many chances even she asked me why do I keep taking her back.. I don't know but my heart was just telling me something.. I don't know it's something about her eyes I just can't quiet point it out.. something I want to reach is inside her.. her heart.. I can't explain that feeling.
2006-10-01 14:09:46 · 13 answers · asked by latasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well.. to those who might think that I am not happy.. I am with this person.. It's just sometimes I think is this all worth it.. should I really trust this person once more with my heart...
2006-10-01 14:46:11 · update #1
Her eyes are like that of a snake. She is charming you.
2006-10-01 14:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really do love her. But, listen to that funny feeling you have. I had that funny feeling at the beining of my 7 year relationsip. I should have listened to myself. It was horrible. Not all of it, but not something I would do again. It almost sounds like you love her but, reaching in her heart to fix her? If she's made a lot of stupid mistakes and you keep getting hurt, then it might be time to take some time out of the relationship. It will hurt like hell, but in the long run maybe you'll find the person who your funny feelings are full of butterflies and skipping heart beats. Someone who will fullfill your desires and not someone you need to fix and feel like at any moment you could get hurt. That's not a good way to enjoy your life. Good luck.
2006-10-01 21:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by llbm3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand what the question is...if your asking if what u are doing is right as in taking her back all the time...i think in the long run ur hurting urself. She knows she can come back to you whenever she wants even after she hurts you, what you feel is love or what sounds like it, and even if you love someone, you sometimes gotta give it up because of what is right for you. you don't deserved to be treated the way she is treating you so be strong and true to yourself and do what u feel is right, nobody can make that decision for you only you can...I wish you the best of luck and i respect you for fighting for your hearts feelings
2006-10-01 21:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i bet you felt that there is something and you couldnt pass it up, so why not give it a last shot to see if your gut was right. Sometimes it ends up in the dirt or maybe you are just being experimental. You sound like you are not sure of what you want and thats okay and all, to test and stuff. But just be careful, good luck huN!
2006-10-01 21:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless if ur gay or straight...it hurts. You keep taking her back b/c you want deep in ur heart for her to love you like you want. And as much as I hate to say this, you will continue to take her back until u have had enough of being hurt. And also true you might not let your guard completely down b/c you don't want to be hurt again. I would try to take astep back and think outside the box and really decide if she is who you want. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-10-01 21:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is to say this ...Move on. I was in a bad relationship off and on for twelve years, Separated for three years got back together for six years tried to make it work. She moved out this weekend!! Now I can get back with my life. Move on if you've tried several times, it may never change. Good Luck
2006-10-01 21:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by burrgump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is a little something i like to call LOVE. And it's ok. It's more than ok. Love is something wonderful. Talk to this girl and let her know how you fell. After all..."it's better to have loved and have been turned down, than to have never loved"
2006-10-01 21:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation, why are you doing it? is what ever your trying to reach in this person really more important to you then your own happiness?
Or are you just really worried that you won't find someone esle and that you will be alone??? Is that why you keep doing this to yourself?
2006-10-01 21:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was something u really wanted then i m sure there would b no doubts in u'r mind. U probably just wanted to experiment, now move on.
2006-10-01 21:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by babybounce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't listen to homophobes. Second, if you heart isn't in it you can't make your mind follow.
2006-10-01 21:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by bukkake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋