my friend needs an answer about her rights?

Question

My friend does not use the net but wants me to ask you what she should do.Her son had a girlfriend but the girlfriend threw him out after they had been togeather for a long time and had a child.He came to her house without any place to go.My friend felt so bad for him that she bought a piece of property down the street from her and built him a house,he was a bachlor at the time.She told him he could live there and when she died she had it in her wil that the house would be his,she said she did this to avoid any woman outting him in the street ever again.Well a long time later he ended up getting married,and he brought his wife to his home,His wife has dogged my friend to put the house in her name but she will not do that because she,s not sure if he will still be with her etc etc,and she don,t want him to loose his home to anybody ever again.My friend has Never charged thenm any rent or anything she only ask that he pay the taxes every October.His wife has had 2 childre since they have

they have been living there.My friend has to make an appt to see her grandkids,the wife is constanly talking to my f,like she was a dog.The wife has done everything in her power to break up the family.They refuse to even let her have a key,will not pay the taxes when due,and the wife has the son talking to my friend like she is a dog.How can she handle this situation,I know the sons wife is a horrible person because I have seen her in action>I feel that she has given them everything on a gold platter.I think she should make them move the way they treat her,but I haven,r told her that.My friend lives alone and has no husband ,they never call or see about het,they act like she owes them something.Can you give me and her some advice

Answer 1

That is your friend's house. She don't have to tolerate this. She needs to kick them out and rent the house out to someone.
Her son seems to have lost respect for her since getting married. He sounds like a wimp who is letting his wife tell him what to do about something that is none of her business.
What kind of woman expects someone to just sign a house over to her? I mean, she could be living someplace else having to pay rent or a mortgage & she doesn't even want to pay taxes on this house. She's needs a wake up call, out in the street.

Answer 2

She has her own home and she is being treated like dirt by her son and his wife. Maybe it is time for son and daughter-in-law to find out about mortgage payments. She should hire an attorney and change her will to give the house to someone else. Have the attorney prepare an eviction notice and evict them. Then the woman can have her name on a deed to a house, the house she and the dead beat son buy. I am sorry to say that her grandchildren will never know her because their mother is such a witch and dad is a wimp. She needs to stand up for herself and say enough is enough.

Answer 3

She has already given enough to her son and his wife. She should NOT put the home in the wife's name, or the son's. She should keep it in her own name and I would advise her to evict them if they don't pay the taxes as agreed. I understand that they want notice when she will be visiting them - giving such notice considered polite. Both the wife and the son should be respectful to your friend, there is no excuse for them not to be.

Answer 4

Your friend needs to learn about " Tough Love ".... if her son is disrespecting her (and he is by allowing his wife to) she needs to just lay it all on the line !!!!They need to either show some respect or find another place to live ! PERIOD !!! Even if her son gets mad....what has she got to lose ? A disrespectful son and an even more disrespectful wife ! She can always tell her son that she has and will always love him but she's fed up and deserves being treated better than they are treating her !

Answer 5

Okay her rights are that this is her house and it is in her name, with the will stipulating that it is his house when she dies. She needs to get with her attorney and make sure that when the house goes to her son, that it can only be in the son's name so that should they divorce, she cannot take the house from him. The daughter-in-law should be told in no uncertain terms that the house is not hers, it is mom's and that she can do what she wants with it. If she doesn't like this reply she needs to be reminded she can move out and into another house! One that is in her name!