im 15 and never had a gf..?

Question

ive never had a gf and idk wat it is. im kinda shy and im kinda big but not like fat. I really need some help and adivie

thanks

would a girl still go out if she doesnt really like me alot

Answer 1

all ya gotta know is that chicks are simply humans, too. just like you. they have wants and fears and urges and two legs and two eyes and one mouth and an ****, just like you.

treat women like humans (wow, what a concept), and the rest will fall into place, just like that.

(it should not matter if you are overweight.... though while ye are still "not like fat" yet, ya might wanna get a hold on it before your weight becomes a major health issue. it's infinitely more difficult to LOSE weight than it is to NOT GAIN weight.)

good luck! :)

Answer 2

You're 15. You're young. I wouldn't even worry about having a girlfriend right now. I don't say this to be an authority figure at all. Give me a cup of coffee, and i'll give you a rant ;)

Its not easy being an adolscent. Going to school. Making decent grades along with being in the right activities to futher your post secondary education. Avoiding stupid people while not making yourself look too terribly stupid. Peer pressue of ANY kind. Learning to drive. Beginning to figure out what you may want to do with your next 50 employable years. Contenting with parents. Acquiring freedom and its responsibilities. Hormones messing up your body.... NUTS!

More than likely the last thing on your plate is going to be romantic relationship. And the hormones are telling you its the first thing on your plate. And then you see every other kid in school getting all mushy with each other. It doesn't make things easy.

Its good to have friends. People who have same interests. Someone you can study with or play a sport with or go to the movies with. Someone you can level with are help if they have a problem. or they can help you if you have a problem. These friends can even be of the opposite gender. Nothing wrong with that. Its not bad to practice either.

You can go to the movies with a girl and not have to be in a relationship. You can do lots of things with girls and don't have to be in a relationship. If you are going to do things... well the stuff that the hormones are telling you to do, well, um... you may end up in one of those relationship things. You have a long time to worry about that.

Romantic relationships can be lots of fun. They also can add ALOT of emotions into the picture, which i would hate to see any one too young to go through. But they require a good bit of freedom, responsibility, and well, money for them to be any quality. That can take some time to get. And right now is good time to prepare for that stuff.

Lean what you can and from good sources, and not just the wise *** jock. Do your homework, find out Learn things in english and history. It does help in the romantic department. Figure out how to be useful in the world beyond school. Do this, get self supporting, the women will come. The right kind of women too.

Anyways, been there, done that. Hang in there. It gets better if you let it ;)

Answer 3

Don't rush into dating if your not comfortable with it yet. I suggest start becoming girls' friend. Once you start getting comfortable around girls and hang out with them with ease, dating shouldn't be a problem for you. Observe what other people do that are kind of on your level. Follow their cues. But of course never do something stupid or idiotic. And don't make the mistake of dating just to date, actually like the girl before you ask her out.

Good Luck. You'll find someone in time, I promise.

Answer 4

It's okay. I'm 16 and have never had a boyfriend.

But I'd recommend just going for it. The worst they can say is no and that's really not all that earthshattering. For all you know, one of your friend's might like you and just be waiting for you to make the first move. Either way, just go for it.

Answer 5

dude. breathe. although it may seem as though ur the only one in the world who hasn't had a gf. not true. i know plenty of guys who have never had a gf. and yes they are 15 and older.. just stop lookin when the rite girl comes you'll know. see. i;m still waitin for my guy, but i'm in no rush, even though for awhile i was. good luck.

Answer 6

Just go out and show girls that you like to have a good time and your a good person and then ask one girl you like to come see a movie with you or do homework after school. GoodLuck!

Answer 7

Just relax and try making friends first, you have to give girls a chance to really get to know you. Plus alot of girls like bigger guys, i know i always did. Dont change yourself for anyone, just be yourself.

Answer 8

In my church, we have a policy not to date before 16, and I can see their point. Wait a year or three.

Answer 9

im 16 and havent' dated, just go and ask a girl to a dance if one is coming up, or think of something creative

Answer 10

i will say be impulsive. As a woman purely somewhat older than you i will truthfully say females like men who understand what they desire, yet as an adolescent I say be thoroughly impulsive whilst it incorporates relationships.