i have been dating this guy for over a year and i gave this kid everything but my virginity but thats all he talks about is sex like its going to change my mind or something im 15 and i dont want to take the chance of ruining my life and i have told him i want to stay a virgin til i believe i am old enough to take on the responsiblitly of anything that might happen and he respected that at first but now all he talks about is sex like it is going to change my mind what do i do i love him but i dont like being in this situation
2006-10-01 13:54:53 · 2 answers · asked by dumb_blonde1209 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is not your love for him but his love for you. If someone loves you and they care about your feelings, they would not put you in a situation that makes you uncomfortable. He knew how you felt about sex before entering the relationship. If his feelings on the situation of sex has changed then he needs to be honest and let you go. You also need to know that you do not have to be under this type pressure and you can let him go.......True love is loving yourself first......
2006-10-01 14:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tajay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys and girls approach these things differently. no matter how a boy feels about you and no matter how much he doesn't *want* to make you feel bad by pressuring you, he is a boy and they want sex. I'm sure he doesn't actually have hope that you're going to give in before you're ready, but a guy's gotta try, right? boys have no idea where you're coming from. they do not understand not being ready or not wanting sex.
stay true to yourself. if it makes you terribly uncomfortable, then get out of the situation. when I was a teenager, I was like you, didn't want to rush it. sadly, that meant that I wasn't able to continue dating one boy for very long because it always came down to being pressured. but, it was worth holding out and it was worth ending the relationships.
2006-10-01 21:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋