2006-10-01 13:44:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. A lesbian is not a woman who was born that way. Usually she became a lesbian after being dogged by a man or having a stressful relationship with her parents. A woman who had a healthy relationship with her father would never be a lesbian. So you take your average lesbian and get a guy who is geniunely interested in her and she can be turned. its hard though, becuase some lesbians have been in the lez biz for a while and its hard to convert them. A guy has to be patient and treat her like a woman. She also would need some counselling for the issues that made her a lez in the first place. Every woman wants to feel loved, appreciated and protected. Women like security. Offer all these things and she will leave her lady lover in a flash. While a woman can offer another woman these things, it can never duplicate it at the levels that a man can produce. She can act, talk and dress like a man, but she can never be one. Remember, by birth she was born a woman, and therefore meant to be with a man. The problem is that she has been damaged and need to be restored. Lesbianism is not a disease, it is not how someone is born. It is a choice! Decisions can be changed. Hope this helps.
2006-10-01 13:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well, I disagree that one could "suffer from" lesbianism. She either is lesbian or she is not, and the lesbians I know are pretty doggone happy! It looks more like the rest of us girls are suffering from heterosexuality and men! (It is neat how they can ask each other out without having to take out a calculator to add up the tiny little minute ways this will adversely affect the person they asked out, or the future of the r'ship; lesbians have it so easy! It's men who bring all the rules: "Don't ask me out, it makes me feel less a man"; "Do ask me out; but I'll only like you for a while if you do"; "don't call before the third day"; "if you don't you're a prude, if you do you're a slut, and I like both, yet I like neither" - phew! Men are screwed up!)
Let's hope for this woman's sake she never again enjoys men. I wish I were a lesbian. Talk about freedom...
2006-10-01 14:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sheri S 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Western-style homosexuality is rarely tolerated elsewhere in the Middle East, with the possible exception of Turkey. It is punishable by imprisonment, lashings, or death in Iran, Saudi Arabia and Yemen.
The Black Triangle was used to identify "socially unacceptable" women in concentration camps by the Nazis. Lesbians were included in this classification. Since then lesbians have appropriated the Black Triangle as a symbol of defiance against repression and discrimination as gay men have similarly appropriated the Pink triangle.
Lesbians often attract media attention, particularly in relation to feminism, love and sexual relationships, marriage and parenting
Kim Daniels in Sugar Rush
Liz Cruz in Nip/Tuck
Tara Maclay and Willow Rosenberg in Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Lindsay Peterson and Melanie Marcus in Queer as Folk
Historically, lesbians have been involved in womens' rights. Late in the 19th Century, the term Boston marriage was used to describe romantic unions between women living together while contributing to the suffrage movement. Continuing a tradition of inclusive acceptance, in 2004 Massachusetts became the first American state to legalize same-sex marriages
WELL I SUGGEST U TO STAY AWAY AND FIND A ATTRACTIVE GAL
2006-10-01 14:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mac 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i'm responsible, i have stated that on right here, lol. i have stated that about the adult adult males in Northern California, the position I stay now. it really is because they don't look very bodily captivating to me, yet then i'm evaluating them to adult adult males in Southern California who stay alongside the coast and love taking position to the sea coast & spend their loose time on the gymnasium or partying, so it really is not any longer a honest evaluation i guess. i'm attempting to renowned the sensible traits in them/him, in spite of the indisputable fact that it really is not any longer what i'm used to. i guess adult adult males who're pushed to fulfillment are a good component and with me getting previous (i'm 24) which will be my objective, yet i'd be mendacity if I stated that bodily i'm no longer nonetheless into the guy with the tan pores and skin, white teeth, muscle mass and outfits properly. it really is humorous although, because I used as a lot as now those sorts of fellows and they were regularly undesirable in relationships. formerly this 12 months after the guy I dated till January became out to have a fiancee, i determined as a lot as now nerdy adult adult males, and when you consider that then, each guy i have dated to date has bored me in a way, yet then possibly i'm only being rude. I easily have a dream guy in my recommendations, it truly is infrequently good because fantasies for the different sex not in any respect come authentic. human beings are authentic, fantasies aren't any more.
2016-11-25 21:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by marinaccio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off she isn't suffering.. she is choosing, and if she doesnt want to be with men she wont. If she finds her self attracted to a man, she will be with him. She wasnt born that way, she is choosing that life style. Who knows, she could have had some not so nice men in her childhood, and she doesnt trust them..
2006-10-01 13:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by rebecwi3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Suffers from Lesbianism"??? A "cure"???
You moron- it's not a ******* disease. It's personal preference. Either you like men, or you like women (or you like both), simple as that. You honestly sound like the type of imbecile who still believes in cooties...
2006-10-01 16:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by StercusAccidit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never knew it was a disease per se. It does go against the natural order of propagating the species mind you but it's up to them if they choose to live that life.
2006-10-01 13:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Deleted 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like Gays and Lesbians have some kind of a disease that can be cured.
2006-10-01 13:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
lesbianism is not an illness...
depends, if she enjoyed men before, there is a big possibility she might enjoy them again.
2006-10-01 13:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mila 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you bring her to a doctor? You could find out if she is real Lesbian or not. I am not sure whehter she likes it or not.
2006-10-01 13:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by Bo 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋