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I just broke up with someone that I really cared for. It started realy wonderfully as if we were meaned for each other. But he could not get over his sorrow from his past relationship, and also the desire to stand alone rather being emotionally dependent on me. That is what he says to calm me down, but I really feel unattractive, not-sexy, and inspirational. He has even asked me to move in, and told me that I am his muse, but now he thinks that there will be no hope for us to go back to that time. He told me he just cannot concentrate on relationship. I think that it is a sweet word from him, but I know I was just not the one for him. I was hurt as we were too weak to sleep in the different room and did something we should not do. I feel so disappointed that the love which once used to be a warm water change to such an icy cold pond. I will give time to myself, but I feel so sad and all these god memories are killing me now with the extreme reality that hit on me now. Help me

2006-10-01 13:43:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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It's going to be okay. Just hold on until the pain starts to subside. It will I promise. What seems so horrible today will just be a memory tomarrow and before you know it you will be hanging out with your friends and laughing. Love hurts more than anything in our life's. Be proud that you are so beautiful to be able to express your grief and get through it. Just cause this guy has problems with new love doesn't mean it is because of you! You most likely gave him reason to go on. HUGS

2006-10-01 13:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Heh I could relate all too well. Us guys are funny creatures. Let me tell you somthing about us...Most of us were raised to be macho, self dependent and strong. The minute we get into a relationship and let our guard down, were most vunerable. It's like the underbelly of an armadillo haha. When we break up with a girl who we really loved, it shoots us a blow so hard that some never recover. Not much can change that, and take it from me - im just like the guy your speaking of.

2006-10-01 13:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lord of the Apocalypse 3 · 0 0

wow thats deep...i feel your pain my broken relationship didnt end up quite like that but i understand the pain of not feeling wanted i think maybe he got into a relationship to fast with you cuz he was needy and maybe he needs time to think what he really wants out of a relationship....dont give up if its meant to be it will be..sometimes people do find "the one" and it scares them cuz they are afraid of falling so deep with someone they then do stupid things to screw it all up hopefully realizing before its too late that they really did have what they were looking for the whole time

2006-10-01 13:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

wow sad story sorry for you

2006-10-01 13:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by lishlama 2 · 0 0

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