Does anybody regret having children? I know this is an emotive topic but honest answers appreciated.?

Answer 1

If I can be honest here... I am not sure if I regret having my son because there isn't anything I wouldn't do for him- I love him so much!!! But if I had to do it all over again... I would've chosen to not have any children.

Answer 2

Not everyone should be a parent, but that does not necessarily mean that they will not become one. I also know that sometimes it is easy to get overwhelmed. Children are hard work, but they are also rewarding too. I guess the question to really ask yourself is if you are just temporarily overwhelmed with the responsibility or if you truly think that you are incapable of being the parent that your children need you to be. If your true response is the latter you might seriously think about looking to place your children elsewhere because all children deserve to know they are loved and wanted and not feel that they are a mistake or invaluable. I wish you the best of luck. It could not have been easy asking such a question. Sometimes the greatest love is letting go and stepping aside for the sake of someone else.

Answer 3

I dont regret having My children. If I could do it again, have the exact same kids at a differant t ime in My life, I would go for that in a heart beat. I dont think, at the time I got pregnant, I was fully ready to have kids. I grew up real quick. Reality smacked Me in the face..and did it hard. I will never regret having My children for Me to do so, would be like saying they are a mistake, and My children are NOT a mistake. Perhaps the way they were conceived was not the nicest. ( both exhusband abusers) but I wouldnt give them up for anything in this world, They are My heart and soul, and when they smile, it speaks right to My heart. Perhaps Im partial, but Thats how I see them.

Answer 4

I honestly do not regret having my children. They have opened my life to a whole new world and I love my brats:) so so so very very much. No i do not regret having my babies! My sister sometimes does though, it is a tough topic for her, she is a single mom with a loser sperm donor. My mom, my husband and I predominantly raise my niece.

Answer 5

Sadly, I have a friend who in someways regrets having her son. She does love him, and she is a wonderful mother, but she comes into work crying sometimes because of him. Her son is only 2 years old, but doesnt show her any affection at all. This is very odd for a 2 year old in my opinion, but I have witnessed it. She will try to give him a hug, or a kiss on the head and he will pull away and tell her things such as "Stop that, that is stupid and for babies" And when it comes to simple things such as trying to help him put a seat belt on he fights her to do it himself. She is left taking care of him a lot, usually with her mother, while his father is at work. He is very affectionate to them, and for the most part anyone else. Its very sad to see how hurt she is that her son seems to hate her.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Sometimes, I almost do.
My children are absolutely fabulous; but I feel like having kids has changed me in very negative ways. I miss myself the way I used to be.
I also miss being alone (not physically). I can't go far from home without them because I feel a strange mix of guilt and anxiety.

Also, things did not workout with their Father and I. There were times when I completely wished I never had my son, so that I wouldn't have to endure anymore interaction with his father and I would never ever ever have to speak to him again. That feeling still creeps up, now and then.

Answer 8

Right now I am 35 weeks pregnant and the father my exboyfriend has totally abandon and neglected me. He says that if I would have decided not to have the child we would still be togehter. This man makes me regret my decision. He almost makes me resent my unborn child but then I know that is not fair.

Answer 9

Do i regret having my kids? ummmm I regret doing it so young I didn't have a chance to go to college or enjoy being a newlywed and being just with my hubby. but I love my kids and can't imagin being with out them.

Answer 10

I don't regret it, but she can be a handful at times. Once you have a child, you can't really imagine your life without them. As a parent, I find myself having good days and bad days. However, on bad days she often makes me laugh. To be a parent you must have patients.