2006-10-01 13:21:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I ask that to myself everyday. Then they complain about how all men suck lol! Well I have found that christain woman are better at liking the good guys. Hope that helps!
2006-10-01 13:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dustin S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because these so-called "good guys" are too busy looking for a perfect "Barbie doll" and not looking for the good women.
I am tired of hearing about the good men out there who can't find a woman. I have seen these guys in action. They complain that no one wants a good guy, but they pass over the women who are a "6" because she isn't pretty enough.
It works both ways, guys. If you want a good woman, you have to look for someone less than a 10. Look at the person on the inside of the skin. That is how you find a "good woman" or "good guy."
2006-10-01 13:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because the bad ones are more aggressive and make it very clear they're interested in us. "Good guys" expect women to be mind-readers and the aggressors. You want to be courted by us and nature has built it the other way around.
Also, "good guys" move things too far forward too fast. You meet a girl and the next day you're sending her roses. Study the bad guys, then do what they do without the meanness. Men are supposed to be the hunters and aggressors. Just because you refuse to follow nature doesn't necessarily make you a "good" guy, and women are smart enough to recognize that.
Our DNA is right there asking us, "If he's not aggressive enough to let me know he wants me, how could I trust him to be aggressive enough to protect any children we might have from all the saber toothed tigers and pterodactyls?"
Good guys need to develop some cojones and learn what being a strong good guy means. Until then, bad guys will continue to win us. There are good guys interested in me, but they sneakily expect me to do the work of handing over an entire relationship to them. I find this so boring. I find them boring. I'm considering a rotten guy I know who's made it clear he wants me, because even though he's bad, it feels nice to be wanted instead of "just liked sort of... kind of... I think..."
2006-10-01 13:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sheri S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that it's mostly younger women who do this...and then, after experiencing bad relationships for years, the good guys become a much needed treat.
Being a young woman, this is how I look at it. But I can't speak for everyone.
2006-10-01 13:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause It Makes Them Really Mad When Woman Ignore Them
2006-10-01 13:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps cause the type of woman you are pursuing isn't into nice guys at all. Not all women dislike nice guys, just ones that aren't ready to settle down just yet.
2006-10-01 13:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-01 13:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by kl k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where are the good guys at? I myself am married, but I have several friends that are in the market,they can't find any good guys,do they exist?
2006-10-01 13:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't. Why do guys ignore the good girls?
Some people are naive and they are looking for the "perfect" person. But that person doesn't exist.
2006-10-01 14:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by BrokenTrust 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe the reason why women overlook good men because they want to change bad men.
2006-10-01 13:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋