im just wondering
2006-10-01 13:21:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am an undestandable, funny, nice guy. i try to look as good as i can. i am somewut smart, im told i am but im too lazy. yes im clean, i take showers daily and brush my teeth too and keep my clothes clean fashionable and up to date. i also try to be polite. maybe not as polite as i can be but how polite can a person really be? its just i have been wondering about this lately bcuz i feel alone sometimes. i've been looking for oppurtunities but they are quikly filled by someone else. i kno im not gay, its not bcuz im stuck on the enternet, and it isnt bcuz im a loser. it might b bcuz im too young? or bcuz im setting my "standards" too high and being picky? both of those might b why but i feel lost.
2006-10-02 12:16:22 · update #1
i am an undestandable, funny, nice, non-nerdy guy. i try to look as good as i can. i am somewut smart, im told i am but im too lazy. yes im clean, i take showers daily and brush my teeth too and keep my clothes clean fashionable and up to date. i also try to be polite. maybe not as polite as i can be but how polite can a person really be? its just i have been wondering about this lately bcuz i feel alone sometimes. i've been looking for oppurtunities but they are quikly filled by someone else. i kno im not gay, its not bcuz im stuck on the enternet, and it isnt bcuz im a loser. it might b bcuz im too young? or bcuz im setting my "standards" too high and being picky? both of those might b why but i feel lost.
2006-10-02 12:20:50 · update #2
i am an undestandable, funny, nice, non-nerdy guy. i try to look as good as i can. i am somewut smart, im told i am but im too lazy. yes im clean, i take showers daily and brush my teeth too and keep my clothes clean fashionable and up to date. i also try to be polite. maybe not as polite as i can be but how polite can a person really be? its just i have been wondering about this lately bcuz i feel alone sometimes. i've been looking for oppurtunities but they are quikly filled by someone else. i kno im not gay, its not bcuz im stuck on the internet, and it isnt bcuz im a loser. it might b bcuz im too young? or bcuz im setting my "standards" too high and being picky? both of those might b why but i feel lost.
2006-10-02 12:21:20 · update #3
cuz ur a total LBR (loser beyond repair)
2006-10-01 13:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by vspinkloverlygirl 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You're not coming across confident and talented enough. We women are into a man who is good at something and who feels self-confident. My suggestions: get into something you are good at, and show it off at school or in your community. Learn how to dj maybe, then groom well, dress sexy, spin some hits, and then act a little too cool when women look at you, which they will. If you're into sports, join a team and work hard to excel. Get the newspaper or school paper to write a story about you, best with a photo. Girls will start showing up and asking about you.
If you're a more bookish type, run for student office, or if you're out of school, run for actual office doing something for your town. Make sure photos of you get taken and put in the paper or online! If you're not into any of this stuff, just start dressing stylishly and take exceptional care of your body and personal grooming. When girls look at you, smirk at them then keep walking. They'll start following you.
Additional tricks:
Buy an acoustic guitar and sit practicing it somewhere public.
Get into swing dancing and dress like a swing daddy.
Get a job at a record store and grow a soul patch.
Build something for children in the local park.
Start a punk band.
It's easy to get a girlfriend. Men have it easy. Women are unlucky. I'm a confident achiever female who has her own business and is good-looking and good at things. Men are scared of me. Women have to sit quietly on a shelf and wait to get picked; that's how we get boyfriends. You're a guy. You have it easy. Just feign cocky confidence and get publicly good at something: girlfriends will flock to your door.
Try this for the next three months and email me Valentine's Day with what her name turned out to be. :)
2006-10-01 20:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sheri S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-01 20:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by kl k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls look at every little thing on guys.
Everything!
So have this check list:
Make sure you shower every day/clean teeth/breath/finger nails/keep them short.
Wear nice clothes..not expensive/CHECK YOUR MANNERS/and if you don't think you know if you have any...read a book on manners from the library.
Shave, and keep your hair nicely cut...Wear a decent pair of shoes..Oh! and wash your face...make sure its always nice and clean...Do not swear..or talk about other girls, or guys....Ask about what she likes....and be very mindful once again, how you act or talk...use deoderant....and forget sex, till she hints....o.k.
2006-10-01 20:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're trying too hard. Stop trying to have a girlfriend and just hang out with friends. When you're ready, love will find you.
2006-10-01 20:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by gatheringplace2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe becuase you ask questions like that on websites like this.
or you could be just unattractive
or your 35 yrs old and still live with your mom
or you prefer playing D&D over other types of social activities
or you may be gay
or... let's just stop here for now I think you get the point
2006-10-01 20:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by skipymcgoo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you're wasting time on the internet(as I am), go to a club or bar and just go up to and talk to a girl
2006-10-01 20:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by sdchaldo27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to pursue someone in which you have common personalities with. If you're very laid back and are trying to hook up with someone extremely out going then it's not going to work out. If you're coincided and try to hook up with someone who's a saint, it's not going to work out.
2006-10-01 20:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found them yet! don't worry, they'll come along. just wait. sometimes, people can't seem to be with any one, but i found my girlfriend totally by chance, and i love her so much.
2006-10-01 20:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by last day of light 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur ugly, or wierd, or nerdy, or just seen as a brotherly figure. or too young.
2006-10-01 20:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋