ok Im 17 years old....and well lets get to the point Im fat!!! I am also shy around guys wich i wish i wasnt. i havent really had a real boyfriend I know thats pretty sad but I wouldnt consider myself absoultly discusting to be with I mean I shower daily I wear nice clothes and am basically a girly girl .....but I dont know why guys dont like me , I think I am the same as everyone else on the inside . I also have reallly cute friends and guys like to hit on them all the time. I mean there are guys who talk to me none of them make fun of me and I am trying to develop my personality so I can become more outgoing...I just dont understand it becasue there are other overweight women that have boyfreinds and husbands.... do you think it will get better for me in college
2006-10-01 13:20:06 · 13 answers · asked by ask me a question! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i do..and try to work on urself as in do somethings active to help u for u not just for others
2006-10-01 13:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was not popular in high school. I was a geek, dork, nerd, or what ever you want to call it. I was tall and skinny.
When I got to college everything was much better. People accepted me as I was. I found groups of people who didn't care how I looked, but who I was.
Keep up the great attitude. You are so much more mature than those other idiots in high school. You already know that the important things about a person is who they are on the inside. You should have a great time in college! Good luck!
2006-10-01 20:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your weight thats stopping you from getting a boyfriend. Its your low self esteem. Just try getting used to looking at yourself in the mirror and saying positive things. Find something about yourself that you like, focus on that and eventually you will start to realize that you have a lot to offer. You're already taking positive steps by talking about how you feel.
2006-10-01 20:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by chris w james 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-01 20:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by kl k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO THINKING called over all u have to do is keep ur head up and who care's what athere people think.They like u for who u r not what u look like athere wies there not worth knowing.So yes thing's will get better in college just keep beliving in ur self
2006-10-01 20:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think your that Fat then work out aliitle bit a day and when u loose some weight u wont be so shy and u'll be more confident in yourself
2006-10-01 20:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have to stay true to yourself and in time you will meet a man that is going to love you for what you have on the inside not what you show on the outside. Just have patience
2006-10-01 20:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by Karla K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will get better as you age, but that's beside the point. You should lose some weight for your own health, not just to get a man.
2006-10-01 20:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys in college aren't as shallow as guys in high school...and guys out of college aren't as shallow as guys in college...the older you get, the better it will get. Anyways, the guys who don't want you because of your size aren't guys that are worth being with anyways.
2006-10-01 20:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand you completely im in the same situation.....Things should get better once you get into college....just hang in their and when you least expect it that special someoe will come into your life.... and continue to be you.......as soon as u start to change yourself (drastically) you become fake...stick to being you so guys know exactly what they are falling for......good luck....
2006-10-01 20:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by *lonely one* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋