Anybody who is going to have mean comments or sarcasm or anything rude to say then dont answer because this is a sore subject for her, and we only want serious answers. Thank you.
So my friend *Anna is really shy when it comes to boys. Back in 10th grade of high school she found out that one of the "popular" boys liked her and she was too shy at that time to tell him that she liked him too. Ever since then he seemed to have moved on but she still thinks about him and has dreams about him...shes now 20. Do you have any advice for her or thoughts or similar experiences and resolutions?
2006-10-01 13:20:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Srry but I think its too late since she 20 and that was all the way in the 10th grade. I think if hes still available she should tell him how she feels.
2006-10-01 13:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Shearson 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes to you most sincerely.. because life is not about how long you live but the moments in time that you truly live... say like when you trip in the driveway with a crate of eggs and it nearly slipped to the floor from your hand, or when u found out that you had nearly walked out of the car into a crowded area with your fly open .. these moments that you have momentary value for being alive and valueable adds to the essence of life... all that was to say this... If you had dreams abt this guy then you need to ask yourself these question(s) 1. would I commit to him and still be myself or is he such an attraction because he was otherwise "sort" after by people you felt less important to? 2. Can you truly find anyone else better than you think him to be remotely interested in you after all this years? 3 Are you a beleiver in your dreams..?
If you can answer these question frankly and truly.. then you know what to do already but still if you are like it is said ".. still blinded by love.." then I will be glad to talk to you more on the actual line of action.. from a man's point of view.
Enjoy and be happy - remember fortune favors the bold.. your pal
2006-10-01 13:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Greatnalive67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say *Anna should move on. 10th grade was a long time ago with respect to relationships. It's not going to be easy for her but she'd got to do it.
A guy in my 7th grade class had the hugest crush on me and I did absolutely nothing about it because I was also "shy" and new to the whole dating game. I'm 22 and I saw him DJ'ing a function I was at. Not only was he oh so good looking he was also engaged. Basically what I'm trying to say is when the oppertunity is there, take it. You only get one shot, most of the time.
2006-10-01 13:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-01 13:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by kl k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe with some encouragement from you.. your friend can try to break out of the shyness. You should tell her,that we only live once. And how with this guy ever know if she does not speak up.
Get a group of friends together that she is comfortable with & invited him too for a house party or dinner, etc.. That may break the ice for her a bit & help her express herself.
2006-10-01 13:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kammaka2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. this is bad. it is so easy to love what might have been but it is dangerous to love an illusion especially one that never happened. it sounds like she has put him on god level and may even have made a story of the two of them that no man can rivel. the best thing for her is to realise that and seek councelling. DON'T TRY TO DO IT YOURSELF. she would see you as a threat to that fantasy and fight anything you say. just be gentle be a friend and help her realise her "mistake"
2006-10-01 14:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who was in the exact same situation. The only thing I can tell you is that no matter how much you wanna help your friend, it's her who will get over it when she is ready... she will make up her mind, whether it's to forget about him completely or have the courage to talk to him and solve her own questions... All we can do is wish her well and good luck...
2006-10-01 13:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy continuously likes to take heed to that he's been neglected by skill of a woman. have self belief me he won't think of your clingy, he will in all probability in simple terms be flattered. in the adventure that your extremely worried approximately seeming too desperate, say it in a joking way; that way he gets the factor and yet there is not any desperation to it. suitable of success/ do no longer sweat it
2016-12-12 18:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but perhaps she should move on, too. And the next time someone comes along, take courage and bite the proverbial bullet.
2006-10-01 13:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your "friend" to move on because I am sure that guy think much about you... I mean your "friend". People that like people and express this to them and get nothing back move on. Find someone else to like and date.
2006-10-01 13:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by sooners83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋