okay, I feel Neglected because my boyfriend wont say hi to me in the hals at school and he will never call me i haved to call him... and latley when i tell him i love him he just says "okay" . then he walked me home the other day from school and he told me the felt neglected because i didnt say hi to him or anything so i felt bad then he told me he really loves me and he said yes and i believed him then i just called him like wat 20 mins ago and his older brother answerd and i asked for him and my boy is like "tell her i am sleeping" so i just hung up... idk does he love me or not?!
2006-10-01 13:15:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a mixed up kid and doesn't really knows what he wants or doesn't put his priorities rightly. Saying he loves you doesn't mean much .. his sleep is more important than you. Gurl, suggest you don't take the matter or him seriously yet. He is neither pushing you away nor likes you. He is just plain ignorance or snobbish when comes to relationships. He doesn't deserves you at all. Look for a new guy ok.
2006-10-01 13:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-02 05:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is pushing you away. If I were you I would give him some space and if someone else comes in the picture, let it be. Time will tell if he really loves you. Your boyfriend is the one missing out on the relationship, not you. There are too many other boys out there to be sitting around waiting on just one.
2006-10-01 20:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by lovelybrowneyez34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-01 20:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by kl k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this one is over. I know it hurts but its better to let go now then beat a dead horse. Just always remember he won't be the first and he won't be the last one that you ever date and fall in love with. If you stay together it will just lead to more heartache in the end for you.
2006-10-01 20:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Casey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 38 and have unfortunately experienced a lot of men. It seems to me that if you have to ask if he really likes you, he doesn't.
Men make it very clear when they're into you. They become annoying. If you like him too, it looks "cute". If you don't like him, it's annoying. Think about guys you didn't like who liked you, and how they got on your nerves.
Now ask yourself if this boyfriend is acting that way. If he's not, there's your answer: he doesn't.
2006-10-01 20:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sheri S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is gonna suck but sounds like you are gonna need to get a new boyfreind someone who pays attention to you and give you what you need and does not ignore you and crap like that. good luck!
2006-10-01 20:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Dustin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dont love you he is just playing with your heart. You need to kick him to the curve
2006-10-01 20:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your getting clingy and too attached to him so for a few days let him have his space.
Srry
2006-10-01 20:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by Shearson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to give him an ultimatum - either he quits sending you mixed signals, or you're moving on.
2006-10-01 20:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋