Friends or more?

Question

So there is this guy that I hav been friends with since I was 3 or something.Anyway we never really were that close of friends.
It was me and his little brother and my sister and him.He's two year older than me and he's graduating this year.But now were pretty close friends,but I wanted to know.Is it just friends?I mean he asks me if I am gonna go to his football games,even if there 4 hrs away.And he talks to me more often,he jokes around me ,trys to include me in his daily jokes.Does he like me or is he just being a good friend?

Answer 1

I think that the best relationships start with a good friendship, i would go for it, i think by the sounds of it he is into you! take it slow and you will know when its the right time! good luck!

Answer 2

I think he's being a good friend. That is so invaluable! Cherish it.
If you want more, just remember that love is a friendship caught
afire. Timing is everything. Keep it going at the pace that it is at this time, but flirt a little. Tell him what a great catch he made- or
ask him if you can feel his muscle. Joke- tease- flirt. But, always make it positive. Negative teasing doesn't turn to love as much as positive.

You want him to know that everytime he sees you or talks with you it will be positive, because you support who he is. Have you seen a little glint in his eye that might suggest he is interested in being more than friends? He already trusts you and that's fab.

In any event, see how it goes- I always like the candybar trick.
Buy a candybar- and when you open it- ask him if he wants a bite- if he takes one- tell him next time you'll buy him a whole one. If he doesn't just say- oh, in training- eh? So, that's how you keep in such good shape.

In any event, just be supportive. Don't bend yourself over backwards to make him happy- guys don't like pushovers. But, since you are friends, just kick it up a notch. Ask him if he got his
haircut- that it looks good. If he says no- just tell him that he's having a particularly good hair day. (Of course this doesn't work on bald guys.) I think you get the drift.

Or-- ask him what his ideal woman would be like. If it in any way resembles you--- you are totally golden! If he says blonde and
tall, when you are dark hair and short- that gives you an idea to just stay friends. If he asks you about your ideal guy flirt. Hint that he'd be around his height, eye color, athletic. Etc. If he has just described you- you can get bolder and walk around him- eye him up and down and simply say, "You'll do."

What man will be able to resist all that???

Answer 3

does he ask if u to go to his games and other of his friends or only u? if only u, then he probably likes u. but if his other friends too, then he probably just wants his friends to b there for him.
Usually guys like to joke, like my guy friends joke around me too and we laugh together all the time, but we are only friends.
how does her include u in his jokes? like does he say a compliment about u in the joke or an insult.
if a compliment/flirting, then its possible he likes u, but if its an insult, it means u guys are just really good friends

Answer 4

The guy obviously likes you, why dont you just ask him straight up?

Just make sure you're alone with him, you wouldn't want to trip him out in front of his friends, it could ruin everything!

Answer 5

You won't get the answer here.


You'll get it when he makes a move, and all you have do is remain close to him. It should happen pretty soon.

Answer 6

He likes you but doesn't want to ruin the friendship by telling you and making it awkward.

Answer 7

I don't know, the only way to find out is to ask him. Why don't you ask him out and find out?

Answer 8

yeah he probably likes you but hes scared cuz he knows you so long.

Answer 9

he likes you!
this is like Deja Vu

Answer 10

I cant tell.