First off, my mom likes this guy, which is extremely rare, since I like him too. We've been going out a few months and he seems pretty normal to me. He likes normal guy stuff, he really gets me off in bed, I like him a lot. He spent the night last night, and I woke up this morning without waking him to take a shower. I was still trying to be quiet when I got out of the shower, and when I came down the hall I saw him trying on my frilly pink satin panties. I didn't walk in and catch him in the act, cuz I didn't have a clue what to say. I went back to the bathroom and made a little noise, then came back and he was lying in bed pretending to wake up. He has a really cute little butt, and he looked kinda cute in them, but he was wearing my panties! I don't know what to say, whether I should ask him about it, or what?
2006-10-01 13:02:22 · 42 answers · asked by Heather F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a common fetish. Liking to try on a woman's panties doesn't mean a guy is gay. Believe me, he could have worse fetishes.
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2006-10-01 13:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by jjs l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Dear.....men are sexy beasts, Mr Mills still has some very odd urges now and then - usually soothed away with cocoa.
Anyway, this man probably finds you very sexy too, and it is quite normal for men to get turned on by women's underwear.
Don't EVER mention that you saw him......or he'll be off like a flash.
Dorothy Mills (Mrs)
2006-10-01 13:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's great in bed and your mom likes him keep him around. You have to tell him you saw him though, if you thought he looked cute in them tell him. It's not like he had your panties, skirt, makeup and heels on with your ex-boyfriend. It's not really that kinky.
2006-10-01 13:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by Brixton B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has a pantie fetish. I wouldn't worry about it. It doesn't mean he is gay or disgusting. My ex-best friends husband had a fetish for lingerie, and he is manly and looks like Vin diesel. Wait for an appropriate time and tell him you saw him, and ask him about it. he will probably get defensive. Tell him it turns you on and you would like him to wear them next time you have sex. Or you could not tell him you saw him and just suggest he wears them for you and see what he says.
2006-10-01 13:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Prissy_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's no big deal. Maybe he likes the way they feel. Guys like silky satin things too but for some dumb reason it's not "socially acceptable".
2006-10-01 13:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its actually quiet normal for a man to v be curious as to what its like to wear something from the opposite sex. if you both really do care about one another you should be able to bring this up to him. tell him and ask him flat out "is this somthing you normally do? or is this a curiosity thing" seems it just may be a fetish of his.
2006-10-01 13:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not all but some guys do it because they'll just into you(a little to much) and will some dumb stuff like tring on your underware,or bra on their heads.Just little silly stuff,when you tell him you saw him the two of you will now have one of those little silly moments to laugh at.You have nothing to worry about.
2006-10-01 13:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him about it unles you are really comfortable asking. Some men just like the feel of women's undergarments. Wearing women's panties is more common among men then some think
2006-10-01 13:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
spank his a**,then precede to the next step,tell him to bend over and slip him the finger or whatever you desire to do,let him be the woman for a change.You might like to be the male for a change.cause no harm to one another,and let go and have a blast with each.Agree to keep silent about whatever it is the two of you are doing.If he was with a man it would mean he was gay, but he wasn't he was with your panties it mean's he likes your panties.It is a harmless fantasy have fun and enjoy it.
2006-10-01 13:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ask him it's gonna wreck your brain. The best thing to do is to sit down and talk to him, not going in and asking him that one question cuz he may take offense. Chances are he'll be upfront and tells you the truth. Then go from there.
2006-10-01 13:06:15 · answer #11 · answered by bre714 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋