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2006-10-01 13:00:36 · 43 answers · asked by x0hEEE 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

43 answers

He buys and starts wearing new underwear.

2006-10-01 13:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by TLWOLFf 4 · 0 0

You'll know he's cheating when you realize he's lost interest in your favorite activities..
- Are you both showing affection?
- Hows the sex life?
- Has the communication level gone down?
- Are you finding him on the phone alot?
- Do you see any strange activities going on?
- Have you two been going out much?
- Have you two been talking lately?

Look over these questions, if you dont like the answers your getting then Houston..we have a problem.

2006-10-01 13:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 2 · 0 0

you cannot really answer the question. If you know the man well in of then you will have a sense and follow it if he is cheating but always remember if you are thinking he is then you will probably make him not like you and the relationship is not to be.

2006-10-01 13:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kara R 3 · 0 0

Is he distant, but for some strange reason seems happy? Is he spending more hours at the office than usual? Has he stopped talking about a colleague at work that he once talked a lot about? Does he go to lunch with 'friends' from work every day? Does he spend unusual amounts of time on the computer? Does he talk to you but never really says anything?

2006-10-01 13:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by deangelis88 3 · 0 0

Ortiz, this says it all (pretty much, for both genders):


46 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair
By Dr. Robert Huizenga
Platinum Quality Author




Some of these signs of a cheating spouse are "tongue in cheek" while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested. But please don't change anything.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse:

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)

3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.

8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"

14) He buys himself new underwear.

15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a "glow" about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed.

44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you that you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

46) The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.

Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach, has helped hundreds of couples over the past two decades heal from the agony of extramarital affairs and survive infidelity. Visit his website at: http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com

2006-10-01 13:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0 0

If you have a gut feeling, it's probably on point. Women's intuition is not to be trifled with.

But other than the basic instinct, I'd say some red flags are things like...the calls come in slower, and when they do, they're shorter. He sees you less and less, and when he does, it's kind of awkward, or he cancels at the last minute, that kind of stuff.

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2006-10-01 13:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by jjs l 1 · 0 0

there are a lot of signs

he starts coming home late often, or going to work early. has to go out of town more with his company.

he smells different. that means he is using different soaps and lotions at her home

you notice, new ties, cuff links, rings etc.. all gifts from her

wants to try new things in bed with you.

his spending habits change, large withdraws from the bank... more activity on the credit card *he is taking good care of her.

he is always mad at you . you can't do anything right. men are so stupid, this is a dead give away lol

gets a lot of calls on his cell phone

good luck, i hope this list helps.

2006-10-01 13:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by Niecy 2 · 0 0

A few:
-suddenly starts an exercise regimen
-unexplained lateness, from work or other tasks or outings
-seems outragously concerned about YOU cheating
-comes home and immediatley had a shower or bath
-less sex with you
-wants to try new sexy things with you, and seems expereinced at it already

2006-10-01 13:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by ShawnaMarie 2 · 0 0

He could change his wardrobe a bit to attract someone. Everyone has their own scent, so if he smells different. (It's strange I know.) You might find something in his car that might look like he's cheating. The best thing would be your gut feeling im my oppinion.

2006-10-01 13:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by monkey_scout 2 · 0 0

If he calls u a difforent name when your doing it
If u are not really sexualy active and he is and he always use to ask u then all of a sudden he stopped for no reason.
If u ask him serious questions and he always seems to be avoiding the ansewer and try to talk about something else

2006-10-01 13:08:30 · answer #11 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0 0

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