my girlfriend who i would do anything for thinks about cutting her self recntly her friends and her got in a fight and she told me she thought about it i was tryin to be therer for her teelin her she can talk to me and stuff but i rely love her and dont wnanna she her hurt herelf what can i do
2006-10-01 12:51:34 · 13 answers · asked by monkeybutt3511 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get her some help!
2006-10-01 12:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by crystal e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you really care about someone and love them, you gotta be the snitch. If she's a cutter, you have to get her help. Professional help. I have friend who used to be a cutter, she said that now that she's gotten help, she's so much better and not as sad. In your girlfriends case though, I think she's not really a cutter. Unless she was confiding in you that she has a problem, cutters don't brag about it. She could just be trying to get attention which is a whole other mental issue. Injuring yourself to get sympathy from others. what you need to do, hun, is talk to her and tell her that you love her too much to see her doing this to herself. Tell her that of she is truly cutting that you ARE going to tell someone only because you love her.
Good luck! I hope I helped.
2006-10-01 12:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Hello,It'sMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a school counselor or someone you trust. They can try helping her without putting you in the middle and jeopardizing your relationship.
Cutting is only the first step in self destruction. It can escalate and turn into suicide attempts.
2006-10-01 12:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by GEE-GEE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people that want to cut themselves have problems that call for a therapist , or they do it for attention in any case there are problems that call for more than you can handle. you need to have her go see some one that can really deal with her kind of problems and if you really care for her you will see that she get the care that she needs. i wish you the best and hope she gets better soon.
2006-10-01 13:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to spend as much time with her as possible. If it works for both of your schedules, go on a vacation to get away from stress for a while, just to spend time together. Camping would be good because it's inexpensive and you would be by yourselves to talk.
Be sure to pray for her as well!!!
2006-10-01 12:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Nemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop being such a damn attention whore. If she was honestly going to cut herself, she would NOT tell you. She only wants attention.
You don't love her, how can you be in love with someone who should be in an asylum? My ex always threatened to cut himself and he NEVER did in private, he always did it in front of people. Plus, his away messages always consisted of "feel bad for me" bullshit.
2006-10-01 12:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate most people who talk about it aren't serious but I would still invest in getting some pro help for her, Its obvious that you love her lots now its your time to step up and help her in her time of need, I know I would for mine.
cheers.
2006-10-01 12:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isnt going to cut herself, she may try to cut you....Ive seen that happen...Tell the parents or admit her to a physc ward...
2006-10-01 12:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that she can go to you with anything and talk to a counselor about her.
2006-10-01 12:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by Bear 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find your girl friend some help
2006-10-01 13:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is emo, get her some help if she keeps this up!
2006-10-01 12:53:46 · answer #11 · answered by Abigail S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋