I guess it's pretty bad when you have to come online to get help with your life. I can't talk to my mom, I can't talk to my sister, I can't talk to my dad, I definately can't talk to my brother. I have a new boyfriend, but I obviously can't talk to him or else it's being "too clingy."
Which is ironically why I'm making this question. He treats me like he wants to be with me when we're together 1 or 2 times a week, but beyond that, it's like I feel like I'm forcing him to talk to me. I don't want to scare him away. I don't talk obsessively, but throughout the day, I try to get the conversation going again, but it never does.
Then my mom, I try to tell her cause she knows what it's like to date and have a relationship. She starts out good, but then when I start crying (I'm hormonal right now), she goes, "Oh God..." like I'm psycho for showing emotion! Then she says I'm crazy, and I tell her I'm not and she goes, "SHUT UP!"
*sigh* No wonder I have emotional problems...
2006-10-01 12:39:50 · 7 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's not what it is at all. If you knew how my mother is. You can't talk to her about anything. She never takes anything seriously. My sister usually tells my parents, and then they tease. She usually betrays my trust. My dad...I just don't feel comfortable talking about things with him. Some things like cars or something would be okay, but relationships, girl stuff, that's something you should be able to talk to your mother about, but I can't. Then my brother, he lives in Georgia and we were never really close. And no, it's not just ME, we just never got along. He and my sister always got along better cause they were closer in age. He's 4 years older than me.
So yeah, I'm not "crazy". I agree I probably need to speak to a counselor, but not because I'm "crazy", but because maybe then I could actually have someone to take me seriously!
2006-10-01 12:48:29 · update #1
And when I said I'm hormonal, I meant I'm pms'ing right now. It usually makes you a bit more emotional. I don't consider myself a drama queen no more than any other girl. I'm usually quite depressed and don't really show much emotion.
2006-10-01 12:49:32 · update #2
I *don't* have anyone to talk to at home. I thought I could confide in my sister, but she always tells my mom. Then they both tease me.
I just am afraid to talk to them about things cause they don't try to help me. I was telling my mom that I wish she would encourage me instead of discourage me, and she gets all mad about it. Her "helpful advice" is usually discouraging. She made me feel like I had already screwed things up with him. *sigh*
2006-10-01 12:57:20 · update #3
its okay if you have no one to talk to. just talk to god he will answer all of your questions you may think well he wont answer my questions but he does. it might take a little while but you'll regret that you didnt talk to him in the first place! trust me! he has helped me through a lot of troubling times and he can help with anything! just dont take god for granted. dont be greedy in asking him for stuff.well...i hope you will take my advice and remember i wrote this because it is the truth. thanks for reading and god bless!!!!
2006-10-01 12:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by cierajane@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not at all a problem. As you have mentioned, you have become quite 'hormonal'. Don't worry about being "too clingy". You are passing through the usual phenomenon of adolescence. I bet all the teenagers get into this at some point of time or the other. So don't get vexed. Cheer up, and work in bits and pieces, like deliberately talking 'nicely' to individuals one by one. Soon, it will become your habit to strike a very good rapport with almost everyone. As an example of someone who followed this method, I can say... err... myself! Have a nice time!
2006-10-01 12:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by vijay s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERYBODY feels like they can't talk to anyone at one point or another. It's really hard to trust people. But hey, try a bestfriend, if it still feels weird yahoo!answers will always help.Personally I go to my brother for everything, he puts up with alot of crying and things like that. And always makes me feel better in the end. Try getting closer to your sister, and then maybe soon you can talk to her about things like that, among other things.
2006-10-01 12:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by justasking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be just hormones but could also be that you are not getting the support you need. Sounds like you don't have anyone to talk to at home. Maybe try talking to your school counselor or friends of yours.
2006-10-01 12:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by SHIELA M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just from the length of this question, it seems you are a "drama queen". Try toning down your emotions a little (i.e. the crying) and maybe they'll start talking to you.
You can always download chat though and chat with anyone at anytime.
2006-10-01 12:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When no one in your family including your boyfriend and especially your mom wants to talk to you, then it's not their problem it's yours. Especially if you are crying and whining over some boyfriend who spends time with you and doesn't treat you wrong.
Perhaps you should tell your mom you want to go to a professional therapist.
2006-10-01 12:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him gurl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 12:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by chante_1294 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋