He is very sweet but he seems to be unhappy and I cant figure out what I can do to make him a little more happy
2006-10-01 12:29:17 · 21 answers · asked by oopsy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sit down with him and talk to him. Tell him you love him and can see something is bothering him. If he wishes to talk about it he will. If he doesn't, then just hug him and let him know you are there for him. Maybe he is not ready to talk. When he does he will. Let him know you are there for him unconditionally.
2006-10-01 12:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take him to play paintball...it will get his frustation out. Sometimes being mad is just built up frustration from trying to hard to be the nice person. The more they put themselves off to make other people happy the more they can become unhappy themselves by not taking time for themselves.
I know..I do it to myself everyday until I become unimportant. Buy him tickets to an event for him and a buddy..so he can go be a typical guy and blow off steam WITHOUT you.
Thats not for you to take offense. Men act different around their friends and can let their guards down more just like you do around your own friends.
2006-10-01 12:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he is unhappy, tell him you would like to share with him his feelings... if he say it is OK, give him space and be there to support him.
Not easy but good.. Sometimes man wants his girl to be there even it means there and doing nothing...
2006-10-01 12:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan a whole day for him.. take him somewhere u both like and fill it with candels , give him a nice card with sweet words in it, write him a poem.. even if its stupid! just the idea of u tryin to write him smthn especiallyfor him makes him feel special, tell him that he's the one for u and that he's perfect for u
2006-10-01 12:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by green_n6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to a great dinner house and try to figure out why hes so sad and ask him how can you make him feel better.
2006-10-01 12:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by AbbyLovesYou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a difficult one to answer because we don't know the whole relationship with your boyfriend. If you guys are sexually active, there is much you can do. If your just friends, well, a nice meal would be good.
2006-10-01 12:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a lollypop :-)
Lol, or just surprise him with like a ticket to a sports team that he likes or a videogame or just spend some extra quality time with him and canoodle :-D
Good luck! ^_^
2006-10-01 12:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about communicating with him to find out why he is unhappy?
2006-10-01 12:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him a kiss on the cheek and be there for him, he's sure to open up to you and get closer to you. That, is better than any gift, isn't it?
2006-10-01 12:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kristina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over to his place wearing a long coat, letting him eventually discover you have nothing on underneath it.
2006-10-01 12:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by Feathery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋