Alright, so here's the deal. I met a guy who recently, like me, just got out of a long-term relationship. We've both been dating other people, but i haven't really liked any of them. Unfortunately, I like this guy. He gave me oral sex last weekend on accident, and then he called me 2 days later as he wanted to talk and hang out, as friends he said. Ignoring the fact that he might have herpes because his ex had it, I ended up talking to him on campus 2 days after that. We spoke for 20 minutes at the busstop. Then he texted me 3 hours later to ask when we wanted to hang out. I went to a party with him and our mutual acquaintance yesterday evening and he ended up using my apartment's bathroom, making out with me, and he slept in my bed. We did not cuddle or anything, but we talked, etc.
The thing is, neither of us wants a relationship. I don't trust him and he does not trust me. He tells me he doesn't believe I'm a virgin, even though I am, and then he goes "god youre so much fun." He
2006-10-01 12:20:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
called me a liar. And yes, I am one.
He says I like to s*rew with people's minds, and I do. I admit it.
Before the party a guy friend took me out to dinner, and this guy asks me what was going on with me and my guy friend. He said my friend sounds like a douche and to stop talking to him, because he wants more than friends.
Thing is, I really really like this guy as I feel we're both liars and a**holes haha. I know, sounds weird right?
2006-10-01 12:21:45 · update #1
I mean, neither of us wants a relationship, we both flirt and date other people, and then we fool around a little but don't touch below the waist because we don't trust each other. I mean, his ex had herpes...Anyway, what should I do now?
This morning when he left, he hugged me, squeezed me and then left. I really enjoy talking to him too. So confusing!
2006-10-01 12:22:40 · update #2
I do know the herpes issue is a big thing, but he hasnt gone below my waist since last time because he said he doesn't believe me. I think we should both get tested. But besides that, what is going on?
2006-10-01 12:23:14 · update #3
Is it possible to just be good friends with him? Why does he keep telling me I like messing with people's minds and manipulating them? Why does he call me a liar and then still want to talk to me?
2006-10-01 12:24:29 · update #4
Poster 1: Because it's a rush. It's a lot of fun. He's the first guy to make my heart beat fast. Seriously, he makes my heart change. I've never felt this way before.
2006-10-01 12:25:03 · update #5
Poster 2: He won't try to have sex with me because he doesn't trust me. I wouldn't do it with him because his ex had herpes.
Seriously, I just really love this rush. No guy has ever made my adrenaline rush. I don't know what's wrong with me as I don't trust him and we're not in a relationship and the circumstances we met were weird.
2006-10-01 12:27:12 · update #6
I hate people who play with others emotions. Its happened to me alot and im telling you it does not feel good. It sounds like in this current situation you guys are both a *****. Im sorry but thats what it sounds like. And no one "accidently" gives oral. Also stop lying or you will never get the truth. But is sounds like since you guys are both assholes you were made for each other......oh an tell him dont be a fool wrap his tool....and get tested
2006-10-01 12:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by aaront_y3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys sound really young. Herpes? Already? Move on girl, this isnt the only kid on the planet. Save your time for a man who cares about your wellbeing and get some counseling. You need to talk about some issues.
2006-10-01 12:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a child in a grown up body. Try not to embarrass yourself with your stupid childish mind.
2006-10-01 12:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going through all this trouble? Stay away from each other!
2006-10-01 12:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by LES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This whole senerio sounds screwed up. Oral sex by accident??? Come on.
2006-10-01 12:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did he accidentally give you oral sex? did he slip and your vagina broke his fall?
if you both have no trust and just want to be friends then why are you even asking this question?
2006-10-01 12:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't even trust each other then WHY do you even want to be with him?
Idiot.
2006-10-01 12:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you "accidently" have oral sex????
You guys either deserve each other or should never see each other again.
2006-10-01 13:15:17 · answer #8 · answered by pcgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stay the **** out of your life and tell him that if he doesnt belive any thing i say why is he trying to **** me again
2006-10-01 12:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by shay j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, u can weite girl! don't do "it"! it's bad! stay a virg! at least try, lol
2006-10-01 12:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*_*♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋