he loves me and i love him it is jsut we never talk and he keeps stuff fromme is it just that he is waiting fr the right time to tell me im 13 almost 14 and he is 15.. would youplease help me in need.please give me good anwsers.
2006-10-01 12:17:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the best thing to do, assuming that you haven't already tried it yet, is to talk to him yourself about this. It might feel scary(nervous is a better word) but when you two actually get to talking about life and each others problems, cool things, goals, and stuff, you will both feel much better. You two can just make that a habbit, and you will both feel your lives getting at least somewhat orderly.
So you love each other, that is enough reason to stay together. But ofcourse, if you two can't get to talking, then the relationship is kaputz.
Now, if this is to be along term relationship, then this communication thing better start soon, or there will be plenty of pain in the future.
good luck you two,
2006-10-01 12:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by recentlyconfirmedagnosticofminds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 I can tell you you have NOT found the love of your life. You have many heartbreaks yet to come. Now should you walk away? Well keeping things from you is no biggie its not like your his wife or even a fiance! Long as whats going on does not effect you then leave it be! If you cant take that and have to be a busy body then leave because no matter what you will never be happy. First and foremost is your age and you MUST realize this is NOT the man you will marry but one of many emotional relationships you will have. Talk to him tell him your issues then see what he says. but realize that this will end someday and what you learn from it will help you with future relationships!
2006-10-01 12:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think most definitely let him go. You do not, and I mean do not, want a guy dealing with a lot of struggles. A relationship is supposed to be a close and happy thing, you may love him and he may love you but there is more to love than saying it. Look for a guy that is just what you want who is open to you and you are able to talk to him and you could trust him. Make sure he puts you before him, it sounds like your current boyfriend is putting himself ahead of you. I hope the best for you! <3
2006-10-01 12:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by gibson1210120 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are both so very young,I'm not saying that you guys are not in love I'm saying that it's a in mature love that can only mature with experiences and a lot of living. Don't be in such a hurry to commit to any relationship with a guy right now. Your boyfriend values his time and freedom and so should you.
2006-10-01 12:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to him and have an open hearted talk about what you are feeling and your concerns. It could be is not aware of what is going on if he himself has a lot on his mind. If you feel you have done all you can to reach out to him and you get no response than maybe it is time to take a break till things clear. Good luck :)
2006-10-01 12:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Michele S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a normal thing at your age, boys have a hard time talking to girls about alot of stuff still. As you get older things will change for both of you. He probally thinks he is making it easier for you not to tell you what is on his mind. Just tell him you would rather hear it than wonder. Good luck sweetie.
2006-10-01 12:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by 51ain'tbad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What type of a relationship do you expect at 13 years old. Enjoy being a kid, there is more than enough time for stressful relationships.
2006-10-01 12:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all the fact that he is in ROTC means you should dump him and run away as fast as you can. You dont want people to see you with him. ROTC is for special type of people known as loosers in high school. This is all over the USA. So there you go.
2006-10-01 12:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The best thing to do, is tell him how you feel. Ask questions, learn about ROTC. Find out where the ROTC meets, and be there to show your support. As for his friends........depending on their problems, keep away from them
2006-10-01 12:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think communication is very important. If you are not communicating well, that is a big problem.
2006-10-01 12:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋