My boyfriend says he's gonna leave and wants me to go with him he has two years of school left and i have 3. he wants to leave in 2 years but i dont know if he'll still have the same feelings for me when its time to go and i dont want to promis much if it wont last. but i dont want to upset him. i kno it may seem early but its been on my mind alot. what should i do??
2006-10-01 12:01:58 · 11 answers · asked by Chevy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never sacrifice your education for a "boy". If he really loves you and wants to be there he'll understand you need to finish school for both of you to get anywhere in life.
2006-10-01 12:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by miss_o41014 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is from a guys point of view. If your boy friend is really wants you to go with him but you want to stay and finish school than stay and finish. If he really wants you to leave then he will wait 1 more year. That's what i would do if i were the boyfriend then I'll wait the year.
2006-10-01 12:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chevy : listen very carefully when a guy leaves a person it is best
to say "I can't leave here with you because myself wants to finish school first" see if both graduated in the same year every
thing will just be fine but.He has to wait until then
2006-10-01 12:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have enough confidence in your relationship to believe that, later down the road, he may not feel the same way he does now (and you don't seem to be sure about this), chuck that man to the curb.....A friend once gave me some great advice: "Live, live live....life is a banquet and people are starving." In other words, if you aren't ready to settle down, get out there and have some fun!
2006-10-01 12:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by solstice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think ur right u don't know if u or him will have the same feelings for eachother in 2 yrs. i think that ui should tell him that and say that u do love him and u aren't saying that u don't believe that the two of you can last but just in case say that you should really think about it...and hey u have to yrs so u don't need to rush anything think about it...talk to him...and figure everything out...hope i helped and i hope everything works out 4 u :)
2006-10-01 12:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to tie yourselves down. If it is meant to be, it will work out in the future. For now, meet other people and learn about life.
2006-10-01 12:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel, i got a girlfriend and we've been dating for 1 year and three months, and i love her to death, bu it did'nt happen in the first three months. ya'll feel different in 2 years so wait until then.
2006-10-01 12:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by luckydog9saddas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Difficult to see, always in motion, the future is."
My advice: don't worry about it too much. Trust that events will unfold as they should.
Everything happens for a reason.
"In my experience, there is no such thing as luck."
2006-10-01 12:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time.
2006-10-01 12:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you really feel, if he really loves you it will work out. Isn't it better to find out now if your love is real?
2006-10-01 12:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋