any mature christian out there that can give advice. Especially men who are trying or have succeed in waiting. I'm 22 and my hormones are on fire. Any suggestions or just experiences. (P.S. my mind and heart is already made up about the issue any rude or stupid comments or remarkds will be ignored so don't waste your time)
2006-10-01 11:56:48 · 8 answers · asked by WOW 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm currently engaged with a wonderful woman and determined to wait till we're married before we enjoy deeper intimacy. It's not been easy, but we can't expect it to be so. The devil won't exactly throw a party to celebrate your getting it right and the blessings that come with this.
Remember you can't succeed on your own. Get your spiritual and biological families involved. Ask GOD for His grace and leadership. If you let Him, He will see you through, and bless you immensely.
Remember that if you truly love the woman in your life, you will wait- even if she doesn't want to.
Pray for couples everywhere that want to get it right.
GOD bless you tons.
2006-10-01 12:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by ChildofGrace 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, My son was going through the same thing a little over a year ago, He talked to me about it, Just hold on, I know this isn`t much help, but God really does know what is best for oyu, he will send the best for you, he sent my son someone, and she was like him, waiting for someone that had not been with anyone before. Not to many of those in the orld today, so give God just a little more time, He has always been there before.
2006-10-01 19:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by theladylooking 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good for you!!! You have stuck by your beliefs for this long, don't give up now! I don't care what anyone says, but I waited and it made it that much more special. I have no regrets, however my marriage ended after 27 years and now I am not comfortable being in the "dating" world the way it is today! Wait....you will not regret it!
2006-10-01 19:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by ladyleomiller 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not make IT your God. There is but one God, and IT ain't it.
Buck it up, bucko. Many men have endure the wait, you can and will as well.
Good for you, though. Marriage will be better for it, because it will be based on true love not lust.
Lust is what you are fighting. Fortitude man!
2006-10-01 19:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lives7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Prophet Muhammad's advice was to lower your gaze, and to fast. These help. Why cant you get married now? It shouldnt be a hardship
2006-10-01 18:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by abdulaziiz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If the part causes you to sin cut it off.
2006-10-01 19:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you engaged? dont wait too long to marry...im proud of you...I know how rough it is..
2006-10-01 18:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Keep waiting?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!!!?
2006-10-01 19:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by farack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋