k. so i've asked this question a few times trying to get a veriation of answers but since the last time i asked a few things have happend. so lest's start from the begining...k so there is this boy at skool that i rly like and we used to be really good friends but then some girl found out that i liked him and told him how i felt so slowly he stopped e-mailing/talking to me and then a few yrs later (last summer) he started e-mailing me again...and when skool started he talked to me but that only lasted about 2wks. then it went back down to just e-mailing me and now i barely even get that...i rly like him and i wish he felt the same i try to tell my self that i don't like him and i thought that maybe if i told others i didn't like him anymore and it got to him than maybe he wouldn't feel so akward (if that was the prob.) and he'd talk to me.. now we don't have any classes 2gether do u think that might be part of it? plz..help!!!
2006-10-01 11:55:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 21:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach him and tell him what u have just told us!!! It's better 2 atleast hve a friendship then nothing at all. Just go up and tell him that u liked him and u still do but u wud just like to start out and become friends. Maybe he got nervous when he found out u liked him so maybe that's y he stoped talking 2 u. Confront him and explain ur feelings. Never kill what's inside of u ......I no what that feels cos i've experienced it and it really hurts. Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-01 18:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one to break this to you, but this is a case of a friend likin a friend and them not reciprocatin the feelins. The only thing you can do now is move on... sorry hun.
2006-10-01 18:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jaded Heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first off...have you tried just being honest? ask him how he feels, at least then you will know the truth. why waste your time on a boy that doesnt like you? If he does then maybe he will tell you, and then problem solved...good luck
2006-10-01 18:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by deflepfan67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your never going to know how he feels about you until you ask him....it sounds to me like he either doesn't like you and feels uncomfortable talking to you because he doesn't want to make you think he likes you like you like him...or he does like you and hes embarrassed and he's afraid that if he talks to you he might say or do something to make you not like him or something like that or he likes you and he just gets nervous talking to you...the bottom line is you just have to come out with it and tell him how you feel...don't sit around and beat yourself up about it!
2006-10-01 19:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you just got right ahead and ask him straight forward
2006-10-01 18:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask him out
2006-10-01 19:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by HELP! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its kinda obvious he dont like you like u like him... its a crush and you'll get over it
2006-10-01 18:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him
2006-10-01 18:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋