ok my boyfriend hangs with my ex more(who's a guy) and yea i know dat they r just friends but he still prefrs to hang out wit him more than wit me.yea we talk and stuff but hes with him 24/7 and when hes not with him he is playing basketball. i flirt wit other guys so he can come to me and stop me from flirting but its not giving him a hint dat i want him to b wit me. wat should i do??
2006-10-01 11:52:07 · 10 answers · asked by jsalgado11094 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe this is a long shot but have you ever thought about turning your flirting toward the friend he hangs out with? If he truly wants to be with you I would be willing to bet you two won't hang with your friend so much.
2006-10-01 12:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful - that is not normal behavior in a man. Are you sure he is your boyfriend? Show him this and tell him that the only good thing is that he plays basketball and that shows some kind of male in him but for him to be 24/7 with this other person... well, that makes me wonder. If he still doesn't snap - then, move on, girl, there's someone else out there waiting for you.
2006-10-01 12:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyinred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not hang around with your other friends. Maybe you'll meet someone else, you never know. Sounds to me like you're too dependent on him. Not a good thing. Flirting with guys is supposed to be fun, not work to make someone jealous.
If you have to beat around the bush and can't tell him to his face that you're lonely and would like to spend more time with him, then maybe you're both too young.
2006-10-01 12:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by Amy Beware 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and Simple:
1. Talk to him (explain how you feel)
2. Flirting with other guys isn't going to make him want to be with you, its just going to give him reason to doubt your trust.
3. Need more help or have questions about what I meant just e-mail me through yahoo answers.
2006-10-01 11:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could tell you cause I'm a boy :that means that he doesn't really care about you.he has better friends than you.he really loves you but he prefers to spend more time with his friends cause he is still very young,and young people don't understand love.
2006-10-01 11:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys r going to hang with guys..that's just the way it is!....if u want him to spend more time with u just tell him!!
2006-10-01 11:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you tell him how u really feel if he really loves u and care about you he will stay with you and try to make it up to you by spendin more time together
2006-10-01 11:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by jeff_castro0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to accept the fact that he is not that in to you find someone better, there are plenty out there
2006-10-01 11:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by ninja cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to spend more time with you.
2006-10-01 11:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him maybe hes gay ,maybe
2006-10-01 11:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by krissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋