2006-10-01 11:48:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First make him notice you
2006-10-01 11:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't. Be ur self is the only answer. If he doesn't like u for who u r, then he's not worth it. All u can do, is keep looking pretty, cool and show him what a gr8 girl u r and what he might be missing out on! Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 11:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first dose he know you have a crush on him. you need to open up and exspress you feelings to him before you lose your chance. Take it from me it is not the easyest thing to do. I think I am losing my chance because I haven't said nothing. Good luck.....
2006-10-01 12:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cant unless he already likes you, a guy knows whether or not he will want to pursue something with a female just by lookin at them.
2006-10-01 11:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Keep in mind that you cannot control what other people think and do. He may be your crush, but that does not create any obligation that you be his crush. Turn the situation around. If there were some random boy in your school who had a crush on you, is there anything that boy could do to *make* you like him? Probably not. You will like him or not. You will find him attractive or not. You will find him funny or not. All he can do is try to be the best person he can be, and hope that you agree. The reverse is also true. Trying to "get" specific person to like you is generally manipulative, something that no one finds attractive or wants to be the object of.
2. Confront your crush confidently.Talk to him about something you have in common. Maybe that he likes basketball and you play on the basketball team. Invite him to one of your games. DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT FREEZE UP IN FRONT OF THE PERSON... JUST TALK TO THEM LIKE THEY WERE AN OLD TIME FRIEND. Hey, no one said this was going to be easy.
3. Don't be obsessed with the person. Don't be like "Oh my gosh! It's him! He's looking at me! Do you think he likes me? He's sooo hot!" You know, that kind of obsessing. If he looks at you, just wave and smile. That way, you won't look stupid.
4. Let him have his own space. If you follow him around all day and always sit next to him, he will be annoyed by you and will try to avoid you. Just sit by him at lunch every two weeks and maybe sit by him in class once a week.
5. He needs to know you like him. If he doesn't know, then he will feel foolish about liking you. Even if the whole school knows you like him, you should confront him and tell him... even if it is on the phone or through an e-mail.
6. Don't force him to like you. Relationships take time. If you force him, all he is doing is faking it.
7. Look for signs and signals that he likes you. If he blushes when you say something nice about him, if someone asks him if he likes you and he blushes, if he's really nice like a friend and tells you stuff like you were one of his other boy friends and doesn't tell other girls, these are some of the signs to look for.
8. If he asks you to the dance or prom don't hesitate. If you want your friends advice make up an excuse. Say something like, "That would be great but let me check my calendar if I have anything going on that day," OR "Let me see if it is okay with my friends, we were planning to go together if no one asked us. But otherwise, that would be great!" Let him know that you want to go even though your nervous. Don't let him know that you ARE nervous.
9. Take baby steps. If he asks you at a prom or dance to dance with him, he's either being nice or he likes you. Take the dance, you're one step closer to being his girlfriend!
10. If you don't know what he likes, find out what he likes. Talk to his friends, talk to HIM. Just say, " Hey, do you like sports? What type of sports do you like? I like basketball and soccer. They are really fun." Just have a casual conversation and let it flow.
11. You don't need to wear make up or be pretty to make a person like you. All you have to do is be your self. Don't get me wrong, being pretty is kind of helpful, but it is not a must have. If you just have to wear makeup, wear one that highlights your eyes. It will make you absolutely gorgeous!
12. Most importantly, concentrate on improving yourself in a holistic way [in other words, not superficial things like makeup, clothes, or body]. Boys like confident, interesting girls who have their own lives. Cultivate your own interests; don't define yourself by some boy or try to mold yourself into the person you think some specific boy wants. Desperation is never attractive. Boys might like to look at Paris Hilton or others of that type, but they don't want to date her.
2006-10-01 12:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by tropicalhawiia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY how can I get you to have a crush on me.
I am real easy, see I do already! :)
Joking!
2006-10-01 11:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you don't care if he likes you or not. If you stop paying attention to him, he will start to notice...
2006-10-01 11:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey tell me if u find out, but stay true to ur self.
WES
2006-10-01 11:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by makaveli1788 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a big impression, hes gotta like what u do, buh dont be slutty or skimpy
2006-10-01 11:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Nanners 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant make him like you if he doesnt but if you talk to him and flirt with him he might like you
2006-10-01 11:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋