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I am dating a guy long distances and I know deep in my heart he loves me.However, every time I turn around he asks me if am I am faithful to him.I am beginning to think he is not being faithful to me.

2006-10-01 11:27:35 · 6 answers · asked by LaToya C 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If you think he loves you 100% then you shouldn't have to ask this. But it seems like you don't trust him. He just want to be reassured that you love him. Guys like that. They like the attention, especially if you arent seeing him quite often. But dont assume he's cheating. Its not fair.

2006-10-01 11:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think you should trust him a little more Long distant relationships are harder because you can't be with the person as much as you would like... And he's probably only asking you the same questions because he's worried about you, he figures if he's not there with you then who is? The key to a Healthy relationship is loyalty trust and honesty and if you don't have that in your relationship trust me its not going to work out.. Have faith in your relationship and the love towards each other and if you have doubts why not ask him? be honest and let him know how you feel thats the only way you can get through this, and if he happens to cheat you know that he wasn't the right person for you never take him back cuz once a cheater always a cheater and find someone closer to you that can be with you all the time I wish you the best girl ... Don't worry to much just relax and let love take its course if it was meant to be then it was meant to be don't stress it

2006-10-01 11:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0 0

I am in a long distance relationship too. This is from the perspective of my boyfriend: Guys want sex. They just do. I doesn't mean they don't love you, they just want it. He says he can have sex with actually 'making love' meaning he can detatch himself from the girl and just enjoy the physicalness of it.
BUT that doesn't mean they will always cheat on you. My bf says that many guys cheat on their girlfriend without them ever know it (i hoped he is wrong, but that is probably true...can any other guys give insight?) but if you have a completely open and honest relationship, you should be able to trust them..it is very very difficult, but there are ways that guys can deal with this: masturbation, porn (better than than other girls), but my favorite is to have internet sex over a webcam...it gives sexual pleause and associates it with your significant other...not the most ideal, but you do what you have to. i think, if you love your girlfriend you WONT DO IT
He keeps asking you because either: 1. he has cheated in the past or 2. he is feeling the stress of how hard it is being far away from you, and wants to make sure you are faithful to him so his efforts are worth it. If this is the case, you just have to tell him that he HAS to trust you, or else there is no relationship. reassure him, you are having a hard time too but he is worth the wait.

2006-10-01 11:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Woman are just as unfaithful.

2006-10-02 04:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Drojan W 2 · 0 0

same reason girls can't

2006-10-01 11:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 0 0

Why can't girls?

2006-10-01 11:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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