All I have to do is notice a woman I think I might be interested in and it always turns out that she's already got a husband or a b / f. I'm talking here about women whose "status" is unknown to me before I ever approach them. I don't understand this. Really, I don't.
2006-10-01 11:16:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look for the women who are looking at you ...
those are the ones who are interested in you ..
2006-10-01 11:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you get your heart into some female, talk to her first, ask some important questions ( the only important one is are you happily married?) all others are just minor set backs..like if she has a boyfriend..that can change from minute to minute..well fro a matter of fact so can the husband thing , but stay away from those...
so if you can't ask her the important question have some one else ask her for you..
or just make friends with her, and soon enough you will know if she is interested and or free, and at least you will have a new good friend out of the deal...and if you know females...they have FRIENDS! ! !....and if your a real good guy to this new friend, and she is taken..then maybe she will tell her friends about this new great guy, and before you know it, you just might have more females than you know what to do with...
good luck
stay cool, be yourself, be nice and sincere, honest, smile..
it will happen...
2006-10-01 18:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's funny. I have the same situation too. A lot of these women even give me very obvious signals that they are interested, -- even attracted to me. The good thing is that I find these things out very early. It saves me from a lot of disappointment. I just move on to the next target. So it's not just you, man. I guess we've got very high standards because you can almost always expect that beautiful women are taken already.
2006-10-05 13:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by nosleep2day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't want to remain unattached for long. Try spending less time "setting your sights" and just make friends. Most of the time if they have a female friend who's also unattached, you mind end up hitting it off with one of her friends.
2006-10-01 18:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, the same thing happens to me all the time, well...actually they're either taken, or they don't like me. Personally I try really hard not to get a crush on anyone, cause it just blows up in my face later on. I really don't know what I can tell you, cause I don't know what to do myself. Sorry.:(
2006-10-01 18:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriends and I have always had this saying - the good/good-looking ones are taken or same sex oriented.
We've always wondered the same thing - why does this always happen to us? Guess just lucky.
2006-10-01 18:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the law of attraction. You attract what's liken to yourself. More specifically, to your thoughts. Intend what you want, believe you can have it, believe you deserve it, believe it's possible for you, visualize it, believe it, feel it, and act as if it's true. You'll be amazed at how you're luck changes when you do this consistantly.
2006-10-01 18:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha its tru but u gotta find out the status on ur own before u approach her with questions
2006-10-01 18:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by polish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most women either have a significant other or someone they like better than you, so they lie. Deal with it.
2006-10-01 18:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by ThisJustin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't either. That is why I have an eye on one in another country that means a lot to me.
2006-10-01 18:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋