ive been in a few relationships thats gone too far sexually, and it turned our relationship to it, thought this girl was cute 4-5 yrs ago, havnt seen her since, i saw her in target, she doesnt seem interested in me, yet i want to go to the movies, thought i should ask her in peson, leave roses on hood etc. but im getting to the point where i havnt talked to her yet except myspace, she doesnt have a phone... ok? im grad dont see her in school, and shes a senior,
you think i can ask her to the movies threw myspace? since thats the only way too do it?
all or nothing? im really interested in her, yet i feel like she waiting for me to do something?
so
ask threw myspace? or whatshould i do before i ask her for a date?
2006-10-01 10:54:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm definitely not going to get many kudos for this, but I have to say it. Go back to the relationship that went too far (sexually) and work on that one. This is not a popular choice, but the right one. If you thought that the other girl was so perfect that you slept with her, then that is the one you should try to fix. All others will only complicate the problem. Not now, but when your twenty or thirty. The guilt will come to the top. It's like oil on water. You can keep stirring the pot and not see a problem, but sooner or later you settle down and things start showing up on the surface.
2006-10-01 11:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her through MySpace; girls like a guy who's confident and you're definitely not sending out that vibe by not asking her out face to face. Make small talk...give her an honest compliment on something she's wearing or doing and go from there. Yes, there's a chance you'll get rejected but at least you'll know where she stands.
2006-10-01 10:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by dardekkis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her as a friend before asking her out. Dont try and take the easy way out by asking her on myspace. I did that once didnt turn out so great. Learn from my experience.
Hope all goes well ;)
2006-10-01 10:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by ukfansc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that desperate to go on a date with her, ask her through myspace. You will never know till you try!
2006-10-01 10:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by LIlhetty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in her then ask her out but do it over the phone. The worse she can say is she's busy. At least you tried and you won't be wondering. Give it a try.
2006-10-01 10:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by winter715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if she doesn't have a phone, how does she have internet access? Cable I guess. If you know where she is, make a point of running into her. Then ask her if it would be ok for you to call, or catch her online. Go from there.
2006-10-01 10:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by playgtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, what's the worst that could happen. She could say no, there are more women out there. Just do it, what have you got to lose.
2006-10-01 10:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin RM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her directly
2006-10-01 11:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask, what is the worst that can happen ?
2006-10-01 10:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not you again with the same question
2006-10-01 10:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋