About a month ago this friend of mine asked me to homecoming as friends. I said yes because at the time i didnt really like anyone. But a few weeks ago i started really liking his best friend and last week we had an awesome day together...but i was still going to homecoming with his best friend so the guy i like asked someone else. Yesterday was homecoming and it was awesome i had a great time.I rode in the same car as my date and my crush...on the ride home my date kissed...but i pulled away because i dont like him like that at all... im not sure if my crush saw because he was driving(i know he didnt really like his date that much)..but now i dont know what to do cuz i really like my crush but i dont think my crush will want to piss of his friend...what should i do...
2006-10-01 10:44:06 · 7 answers · asked by ohdarliingletgo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had no idea my date liked me cuz he made out with this other girl las week so i thought he liked her...
2006-10-01 10:52:39 · update #1
Tell your date you want to go out with his friend.
2006-10-01 10:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm i kinda had the same problem, but i would say go with your feelings cause normally they are right. And if they are best friends, your date would MOST likely be supportive of your crush. However these are guys and they are really difficult to read lol but since i watch desperate housewives i am going to have to say "the heart wants what it wants" so go with the crush, try it out, what is there to lose? plus i am assuming you are still in school so its not like you are going to get married to this kid, just give it a shot you never know =)
2006-10-01 17:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by charmed12184 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Open mouth.
2. Let words come out.
Its amazing what a little open communication can accomplish. You're far too worried about what other people might think or feel. Just remember that none of the people you described have ties or obligations to the other people. None of them have established relationships, so quit worrying about it!
If you want to pursue someone, tell him you like him. It's that easy.
2006-10-01 17:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is be honest with both guys, tell Mr Crush how you feel, and also tell Mr Friend how you feel, this will get it all out in the open and they can make their own decisions
2006-10-01 17:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and this is only the beginning for you honey. sounds like you are in a big worry bout it all. but to come in between two friends is a lil' difficult to do. and to be the one who ends up winning in all this is rare. just remember you are only young once in your life. you have to do what your heart tells you to do. even if you are the one standing watching that car drive by without you in it at all.
2006-10-01 17:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your crush will probably not want to hurt his friend so I doubt he'll date you. Your best bet is to find someone else, who isn't friends with either guy.
2006-10-01 17:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homecoming's over. Do what you want.
2006-10-01 17:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋