I'm a little disappointed in my boyfriend. He makes 3X what I make. Every time he asks me to pick up something for him, he never offers to pay me back. I finally confronted him and he said he thought it "all evens out". I pay for alot and am started to resent it. He has two kids too that I buy b-day, x-mas and buy school things for. What gives?
2006-10-01 10:35:28 · 6 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The next time he ask you to bring something tell him you are running low on funds and you will come over a little later so he can run to the store. I would also make him aware of my finances. Buying things for his kids should be by choice if you cant afford to do these things dont. Pick one time to buy something nice for them like Christmas or a birthday . Dont continue to do things if you are resenting doing for him. If things continue to stay the same then it might be time for you to look for someone that can be more helpful to you. He is making three times what you make sometimes as he said it evens out. I am sure his bills are more than your and if he has kids thats another part of his money(child support).
2006-10-01 10:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is dependant on your $$. What does he pay? House, bills etc.? If not you have to find some common ground.
2006-10-01 10:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Hollywood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 18:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then he is not the guy for you! tell him" i am sorry but you are take my money away you get more money then me and you don't really take care of your children... if you don't start getting your butt of that couch then this is not going 2 work out....
2006-10-01 10:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a moocher, dump him quick.
2006-10-01 10:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes selfish, he should be doing more....
2006-10-01 10:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by manque 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋