i want to just simply beat the other person up i know its wrong and i am only a white belt
what should i do
2006-10-01 10:31:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Martial Arts
There is no dark side to martial arts. What you are experiencing is called anger. You need to find out why you are angry. You choose to be angry or not, no one can make you angry. Take some time and get over your anger, don't take it out on others.
2006-10-01 14:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the statement that there is no dark side of martial arts. Sounds like you have been watching too many movies and/or videos. If you enjoy beating people up, take up some other activity than martial arts. You also may benefit from counseling at your local community mental health center, for anger control management and/or any other issues that you are expressing through these feelings.
2006-10-02 02:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with wanting to beat the other person up. If thats your thing then thats your thing. Just remember that the basis for all martial arts is self restraint and disipline. It will be up to you to decide what you get out of martial arts. I can tell you that if I were to get in a street fight with the things I know... I would beat the holy hell out of that poor SOB.... because that night.... I'm walking home!
2006-10-02 04:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a white belt,, yes u feel invinisble cause u can say u know martial arts,, wait til when ever u can start sparring,, than u can ,, if ur good at it maybe u'll get in to ur school's competition team and get medals and stuff,, sparring is great,, there is non-contact, semi- contact and full contact,, usualyl full contact is wit gears on,, so ya, u should talk to ur instructor about this or about the sparring thing
good luck at ur martial art future
2006-10-01 10:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep training and pay attention to the details and style of your school. Show a lot of respect to your instructors and other students. Your skills will develop to a point where smashing people makes little sense. Most really proficient martial artists that I have known are really mellow. Thats because they are really centered and they also are confident in their skills to the point they having nothing to prove anymore.
2006-10-02 16:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Thurston Howell III 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Whenever I feel that invincible, I let the grandmaster, 8th degree black belt in kajukenbo kick my *** all over the dojo. I do it so that I learn two things: 1. I still need to get better b/c there will always be someone who can kick my ***, and 2. He can kick my ***. I'm freestyle fighter by experience, but I don't know everything. Sometimes, I need my ego checked. It's a humbling experience.
2006-10-02 11:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spar more. Hit the heavy bag more.
Most likely you don't really want to hurt someone so much as test out your new skills. The place for testing is at your dojang.
This is just natural curiosity.
It is unethical to use the arts to be a bully. Resist your urges and practice more.
2006-10-02 05:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by spidertiger440 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa,slow down grasshopper!No,it's not cool to just want to beat up the other person,that isn't what martial arts is about.
Work on beating up the punching and floor bags and talk to your instructor about it and see what s/he says.
2006-10-01 10:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anna A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure do ask a lot of questions. If you're only a white belt don't spar anymore. Just work on your form.
2006-10-01 11:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because you're curious about your skill and want to see if it's effective and if it work. So the best thing to do is go to gym that actually spar with full contact and resisting opponent.
2006-10-01 18:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋