I am 18 and feel self concience about being 5 ft 6 and 110 pounds with small hips and no boobs only 32a. Most of other girls in my college have fuller bodys.I also have dark brown med. hair curly shiny but it frizzes when humidity is bad.My cheek bones are high i hate that and my lips are not full but fine and mediume smile is too big. Only thing i like about my self is my eyes because they are big and my face because it is clear and olive skin tone so i tan.How do i make myself more confident and less shy?
2006-10-01 10:15:21 · 9 answers · asked by Jenny D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really would like to feel pretty and make some friends.
2006-10-01 10:17:06 · update #1
My ex. bf thinks i look like a piece of **** and ugly has no problem saying so.
2006-10-01 10:30:32 · update #2
Sometimes it's not easy to feel confident. Just do the best you can and knowing you're doing your best should help make you feel more confident.
At least you will know you did all you could.
Remember beauty comes from with-in, It's what's in your heart that can make you beautiful or ugly to the bone.
2006-10-01 10:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the biggest thing is just to focus on those things about yourself that you do like and flaunt those. And I dont just mean the physical traits. If you want to do a few changes to your physical appearance, you can a buy a padded bra to make your chest a little fuller, wear more like flair jeans to give you some lower bulk, especially look for some fun belts with some sparkle or something, they will visually add a little bulk and give you more defined curves. You said you like your eyes so flaunt and accent your eyes, Try a little makeup-not too much with the color emphasis on your eyes. To make your lips fuller, try a lip plumping lip gloss or a slightly darker shade of lipstick than you normally wear. But the most important thing to remember is that you are a wonderful unique person, and more than likely there are lots of people out there who see it even more than you do. Hang in there and good luck!
2006-10-01 10:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop belittling yourself. I know that we are all critical about ourselves, but you are taking it to the extreme. Beauty comes from within. Didn't you know that. You can be the most beautiful person on the planet with a black soul and you would be ugly. However, you could be the ugliest person in all of creation with a heart of gold and people would find you beautiful. Plain and simply, the outer package helps, but it doesn't really matter. It sounds like you have some self-esteem issues that you need to work on. One way to help yourself is to look in the mirror every morning and say "I like myself, I love myself...everybody loves me!" Repitition is key. After a while, you'll actually begin to believe it and your self-confidence and self-esteem will grow. You need to work on the inner you before you go out and tackle the great big world. Also, I'm sure that all of this sounds kind of corny, but try it. You never know. Good luck to you.
2006-10-01 10:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can where padded bras and panties check the websites on line. Some women would love to be your size. You are a slim person woman.Go see a stylist about doing something with your hair I am sure they will have some products to help with the frizzes.You might want to gain a little weight and tone yourself so you can look great.
2006-10-01 10:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a former model, I've had to realize that you are more than looks. One thing I have learned is you can't satisfy everyone so try to make yourself happy and don't worry about being the most popular girl. She is usually pretty lonely and has very little -- if anything -- of substance to hold onto despite everyone wanting to be around her. If someone doesn't like you for who you are, screw them -- they are very much not worth it.
Put more value on yourself than what you see around you. Measure yourself by what really matter and lasts and others will value you for that also.
2006-10-01 10:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing later? J/K maybe What color of eyes? Did someone tell you your ugly because I'm not getting that picture. Just believe in yourself!
2006-10-01 10:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Hollywood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any confident look. bypass out, be your self & only start up getting to carry close different human beings. maximum honest females hate adult adult males who imagine they're some form of participant, inspite of each and each of the rap songs, There are those who only opt for to change into some form of WAG yet a lot of others who only opt for someone to take care of them properly, recognize them & enable them to get to carry close that you're someone similar. good success mate. :)
2016-11-25 21:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by jamshed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a bra that makes you look like you have boobs, but not too much, where some make-up...not too much...find something to do with your hair...and flaunt yourself.
2006-10-01 10:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
were something really sluty and hang out with populor girls that are ugly
2006-10-01 10:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋