I have asked this before but I was misunderstood. So there is this girl I really like but she thinks of us as friends so what can I do or say to make her think of me as more than a friend? Right now I am just being as nice as I can to her, when she is cold I give her my coat, and when she asks me not to do something I don't. Any other ideas?
2006-10-01 09:58:05 · 15 answers · asked by Poster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she just doesn't think you are that cute. It has nothing to do with you - I'm not trying to insult you but every girl has her own preferences. She might just not be that into you and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. Plus you can't ignore chemistry of a lack there of.
Also, you could be acting a little TOO nice to her. I see that you are trying to be a gentleman but IMHO it can get annoying. I'm not saying turn on her and be a d1ck, but just don't try so hard. It's cool that you listen when she says not to do something. you sound like a great guy.
One last thing - while you probably like her a lot, you should concentrate on finding a girl that thinks you are a god. Everyone deserves nothing but the best as far as relationships go. Good luck!
2006-10-01 10:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by gowanstl24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, if she doesn't like you in that way....there is nothing that you can do to make her want to be with you. The more you try, the more your going to make her feel pressured and pushed. Would you at least want her in your life as a friend or completely out of your life because you scared her away? Girls are really complex and when a girl says no, she means no, and when she isn't into that way it is really best that you keep it that way. The woman of your dreams will come alone and you will wonder what you were doing sitting around waiting for a woman that doesn't feel the same. Your awesome, remember that!! Good Luck!! :)
2006-10-01 10:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure on how well you know this girl, but possibly get to know her better. Then when the time is right sit her down and just tell her and go from there... it's always best if you just tell her. You never know....she may like you back and just be to shy or something. Everything will work out the way it's suppose to. If you two are meant to be together you will, but just try to be as sweet as you can and don't rush into anything and dont push her to like you... Good Luck.
2006-10-01 10:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to compliment her! Tell her how beautiful she looks in a certain light. I know I know that sounds chessy but you have to let her know you like her more than a friend.
If that dosent work just go out for it tell her you like her more than a friend, But remember ever action has a reaction. The minute she says yes to a real date you are no longer friends and no matter what happens your friendship will never be the same. So just make sure before you ask her out.
Good Luck!
2006-10-01 10:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I don't think you were misunderstood in those other questions. The answers just weren't what you wanted to hear.
If a girl says she just wants to be friends, she is not interested in anything more. You just have to learn to deal with it and move on.
However, sometimes when a girl sees her "friend" suddenly be the focus of another girl's attention, she rethinks her "just friends" position. The wort thing you can do is continue to follow her around like a puppy dog, allowing her to take you for granted.
2006-10-01 10:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking her to the movies or an amusement park with a group of friends. that way, your friends and her friends can hang out. then after you have done that a couple of times, i suggest asking her to go get a smoothie or coffee(depending on how old you are) and to sit with at lunch(again if you are still in school) try it out. be yourself, girls like an honest guy!
2006-10-01 10:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by lizzy loves life. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried flirting with her? Complimenting her on her looks? Try taking it the next step and asking her out to dinner. Try to show your feelings a little bit more.
2006-10-01 10:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing everything that you can..
You just have to tell her how you really feel.
And if she doesn't feel the same way about you, then you just have to move on.
You seem like a really nice guy..Good luck!
2006-10-01 10:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at her and say, "I think you have beautiful eyes." She won't mistake your meaning if you look right into her eyes when you say it. Follow it up by asking her out on a date.
2006-10-01 10:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think U should talk to her as soon as possible or else she will think that u are gay or u have some1 in ur life.talk to her if she doesn't respond say bye bye
2006-10-01 10:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋