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2006-10-01 09:53:48 · 35 answers · asked by ladybird 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
for those of you that asked no i am very unhappy at the moment
2006-10-01 10:02:42 · update #1
well good question.....when youve been married to a woman beater for 21yrs and trying to hide it from ure 6 kids...(wen theyre in bed and hear me crying)when you put up with it till you leave and take the lovely kids too and get another house...get a restraining order so he cant see his kids for 12 weeks and answer the new front door only to find a policeman telling me in a grim voice"your husbands killed himself"oh what a time....then move back and bring the kids back to that awful house where all the bad stuff happened and be haunted by the very man that drove me insane...get ministers get priests only to be told if i stay there il never be rid of him.......well to cut a long story very short......that was all a long time ago(7yrs)so am i happy now u better believe it...remarried to a man who knows what a dad and husband should be got a wee new baby girl with him and all my kids think hes the bees knees....sorry ,,, new job new home new life.......oh thankyou god am i happy..........................liz..........
some people say i should write a book any ideas...lol happy liz...........
2006-10-01 10:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually, I am. I'm married to a man I love very, very much. We own our own home, and are slowly working towards our plans for the future. Not everything in my life is easy or how I want it to be, but I am content with what I have - love and security - and I am truly happy.
2006-10-01 10:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not happy in the relationship area, which with me, I feel sad and unhappy all the time. Yet when I go to school, work, play with my kids, or do my hobbies, then I'm happy.
2006-10-01 09:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by *zz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a really good question. what are the parameters? if i say yes, i'm happy, does that mean i'm 'up' all the time? does it mean i smile when i go to bed? that i never wake up grumpy? that bad stuff never happens to me? i don't think being happy is about that. it's all about your attitude.
right now, i'm happy. i had a nice meal with my husband tonight, my house is clean, it's raining but i got out for a walk this morning before the rain started. i can look back at my life and say i have no regrets, which is not as easy as it sounds. so yeah, i'm happy :)
2006-10-01 10:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by stufetta 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was whilst I was married to a woman I adored and placed on a pedestal. Then she went off with another guy and I wa suicidal for a couple of years. Now I am so happy I see she did me a favour by going. My life now is so peaceful and calm it's unbelievable, I love my life now.
2006-10-01 09:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by tucksie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think since I've been divorced and single for a while I have truly found /and on the way to finding more of my own happyness.... because for the longest time I was deeply depressed and suicidal.... so there's your answer
Laterz
Branden
2006-10-01 09:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by Branden W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a happy person but not happy at the moment.
2006-10-01 20:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Rollercoaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Thinking about it...*
Yes, I am truly happy. That doesn't mean that I'm still not striving to achieve more in my life, though. In order to maintain the happiness, one must continue searching for higher goals and aspirations.
2006-10-01 10:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by squirrellondon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am no where near truly happy, but thats life you just get on with it, throughout every day you have your moment that will make you grin from ear to ear but for me thats not enough.
2006-10-01 10:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by Arlene B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes - if the kids don't act out toooo much, if my arthritis doesn't stop me doing things, if i don't manage the housework and nobody complains. If all the above happen on the same day then i am ecstatic. hope you are happy.
2006-10-01 11:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by magicalle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋