or do guys do this too, but i just havent notaced?
everything i do i just worry and worry about whether i should have or should have done something else, or something more...
2006-10-01 09:39:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know
This question keeps me awake and nights as I go over and over all the possible reasons why I over-analyse every single aspect of my life
2006-10-01 09:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by MrsTrellis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls analyse things from the heart,they get hurt the most (mostly unintenational) in soving problems,it is all logic, reason (or heart) will comfuse the issure,as make a list on paper draw a line down in middle,now left side the good ,right bad,now you can see it clearly right?paper is also the trick to get motavated also, list to do ,reward(coffee ),cross out list,make new list works, good luck.
2006-10-01 16:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My theory: it has to do with partial hormones and partial intelligence.
--Women in general have higher IQ's than men. Women tend to stay in a tighter range around 110 or somewhere similar, which is higher than the average of 100.
--Men are more scattered. Either they are lower than average, or a lot higher than average. Usually men, are slow or extremely smart. It SEEMS to me that men that are smarter, tend to worry more often than their counterparts. But, still not to the extreme that women do, so I think that the hormones have something to do with it also.
--Women also express themselves more, when men don't care.
2006-10-01 16:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way, I do it because I like to present the good side of myself to people and it makes me feel good about myself too so it's not just for other people. I wonder if my actions are showing my good side, so I try hard to make my actions match my word so I am a better person for myself.
2006-10-01 16:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a learnt behaviour. generally women learn to weigh up moods and situations thro analysis to keep ourselves safe. if we grow up in a volatile home either physical or verbal we start to learn how important it is to analyse moods and others' actions. guys do it differently but some can get very controlling like this. it is controlling behaviour and you can stop it. mild ssri anti-depressants can help and eft. www.eftme.com
2006-10-01 17:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do exactly the same thing i always worry about everything! To my knowledge men don't do this. I think women are just born worriers as we tend to be the ones who look after everyone and thing!
2006-10-01 16:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me years to figure this one out. Insecurity. Don't worry, it's not fatal. We're all a little insecure, ( Guys too, we're just not as good at it) especially when the heart is involved No? You are just being human, love. -- Rat
2006-10-01 16:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think its cause once something has been done its then out of your control, and just the thought of if I'd done that differently or said that or didn't say that would things be different and would things have gone as i wanted them too?
2006-10-01 16:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by greenday_fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people do that ... like mainly perfectionists
Dr BAD
2006-10-01 16:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it it the way that our brain works, men are very simple, they never wonder what if or what could i have done, they let it go, we rack our brains for hours. it is just the way we work
2006-10-01 16:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by sumerlove05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋