why do people cheat on each other?
2006-10-01 09:28:49 · 35 answers · asked by amber h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People cheat because they want something that is not theirs. it not that they don't Love the one they are with it's just they want something else. To conquest. To be able to be with someone that they are not suppose to be with. Studies shows that women cheat more then men but I feel that gender has nothing to do with it. We all are always looking for something different, not to replace but to Branch out and experience life to the sexual fullest that we can. There is a different between sex and love. Most people that cheats wants sex and is not looking for love. People were never meant to be with just one person sexually. Even the very design of the human body tells us this. We can love only one but want to have sex with many.
For the comment on the comment below. Some people just don't understand the design of the human body. Now for the bible part, you need to read the bible because in the bible many righteous men of god have wife's, contrabinds and handmaids that they would sleep with often. Yes you need to read your bible.
2006-10-01 09:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 4⤋
There are a lot of reasons why people cheat. When a marriage is involved people assume that one spouse cheats on the other because the other is not doing their job. Not true in a majority of cases. A person may cheat in a relationship because they are not happy with themselves. The person may be insecure. The person may feel like they screw up everything so why not the relationship. The person may want out of the relationship and getting caught cheating is a good exit stratedgy for them. Sex addiction. And the list goes on.
There is no answer to why people cheat. Only the person that cheats knows why they cheat and sometimes they may not even know.
2006-10-03 04:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Perri L 2 · 11⤊ 0⤋
I actually just made a video about this on my YT because it's like a lot of people cheat. They cheat because they're ego. I think they cheat because they can't open up about their desires. They cheat because of trauma in their life.
2016-03-01 02:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by OneHourShower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyine cheats. And some have done it and never tried it again. But I blame society. People are made to believe that cheating is what men do. They are men they can't help it. Men look men flirt and some men cheat... Well that's a crock, and once they are raised to believe this is true, what else do you think they're going to do. Then you have people cheat because it's exciting to them. Also the ones who are cheated on cheat because they feel they have they right.
Then sometimes cheating sneaks up on you. Two people can spen alot of time together, what ever the situation may be, and it just sort of happens. They may try to fight it for a while but if they dont get out after they feel the pull, the're gone.
And some do it because they want to do things they are uncomfortable trying with their parnter for fear of failure.
There are so many reason, none I feel are right, or make it less wrong, yet cheating has become a way of life in America. It's every where.
And for the comment;;;;
People were never meant to be with just one person sexually.
THIS IS A FILTHY LIE... YOU NEED A BIBLE....
2006-10-01 09:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by rebecwi3 3 · 11⤊ 5⤋
Some are curious. Some say its because the other person is a virgin and they want to find out what its like. Some arent satisfied with their relationship they are in. Some say they dont know why. Its hard to tell. With cheating comes lying. Its not worth the trouble. If you are considering cheating, DONT. If you are the one being cheated on, find out the reason, notice the signs and learn from the expierence. Best Wishes
~Ambrosia~
2006-10-01 09:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by amberpurkey2003 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Whatever gender, male female, geez,,, there's an extreme selfishness trait and inability to truly love themselves which stands to reason for their inability to love their "partners". Not that it makes it an excuse. There's too much education out there that if u have a trait you dont love in yoursel, buy a book and change your life. Do yourself this much, if you are or going to cheat, read a book your partner is going to pick up and read to get over such a heart felt betrayal. The lies, get bigger,,, get help!
2015-01-14 21:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by tam2u2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat because they do not find anything in there partner or boyfriend / girlfriend but they r usally Afriad to tell them ... Or they r just hoes and like to be with multiple people at one time... If ur partner or couple is cheating u don't have any good reason to be with them
2016-05-19 10:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by chastity brianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are willing to compromise their integrity. It's a weakness, and people do not have any willpower. I have always been overly active(3-5 times daily), and I've never cheated. I just take care of myself and try to be understanding that people are more and less horny at different times in life.
2006-10-01 09:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Nep 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They cheat because they really do not care enough about the other person to not cheat. They like the relationship in a whole but are not really in love with the other person in the relationship.
2006-10-01 09:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by leggs10red 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There are quite a few reasons. Sometimes the person doesn't have the courage to leave the relationship they are in at the time. Sometimes there is someone that catches their eye and even if they love you they may want to know what else is out there. Sometimes it's a powerplay. Cheaters are often repeat offenders. Sometimes it's just too easy.
2006-10-01 09:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by Adrianna 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋